Jacob’s Items in the Wagon: Ashes Yellow Carnations– Yellow is “his favorite color” says Jonathan and carnations are his birth month flower Teddy Bear Grampa Jacob’s Sweater On Bear Giraffe Gramma Zebra Mom Cow Gramma Lamb The Cary Family Duck– Busia Prayer Bear– “Great” Aunt Linda, Uncle Tom, & Alyssa Donkey– “GreatGreat” Aunt Carol Eichhorn “GO Cowboy Donkeys!” Dollsize Homecoming Outfit– NICU Mini Diaper Blue Knit Hat– Micki Goldstein 3D Ultrasound picture 1 Month Picture “Son” Picture Frame– Gramma & Grampa BumbleBee Transformer– Joshua & Jonathan MakeaPlate– Essential Care Black and White Fabrics– Mom Jacob’s Ladder Quilt Nicole & Derrick Pierce “On The Night You Were Born” Book– Amy Jo Harrod Mom’s BabyDoll Cradle Ink Footprints Paci/Binki Bag Balm– Daddy (“Do I look like I have teats or udders?!??!”) “Mom+Dad=Me” Frame– Bales Family “Live” Picture Holder & Picture– Amy Longwell, Jen Santora Guardian Angel Pin– The Wereski Family Baby Bible from Family Dedication– Grace Baptist Church Airplane Blanket– The Pawlowski Family & Auntie Juli
Jacob Ryan Fahmer January 14 May 31, 2008
A celebration of a life we shared for a moment yet will impact us forever. Fahmer.Blogspot.Com
Some of Jacob’s Impact On The World This is a quote from the post “Update‐ Day 8” from Jacob’s Blog written by Jason one week after Jacob’s birth: Earlier this week I was discussing Jacob with a very close friend who also happens to be a pastor and he confessed to me that in contemplating our situation this past week and in praying for Jacob and our family he came to the realization that even he doesn't long for a time where there will be no more sin and death the way he should. When things are going well in life we become the typical American Christian and often times put God and His Kingdom on the backburner. Here's a man who has his Masters of Divinity, who has studied the Bible for years, who seeks God, who I look up to and respect, and God is refining him through the life of our 7 day old, 3 pound 9 ounce little Jacob! Awesome. Oftentimes we'll never know the reason for situations like Jacob ‐ and this side of heaven I don't think we'll ever REALLY know and understand the full impact that this little guy has had on so many lives. However, when I think of my conversa‐ tion with my friend, I can't help but think that God is using Jacob in some of your lives as well – and thus we are privileged to have played a part in that experience even if it ends up in sorrow or suffering in our own. Our prayer is that Jacob's life is not in vain and that God draws you closer to Himself through this time. Each one of us can find areas where we fall short and God is reminding us through Jacob that this world is not perfect – it has been warped by man choosing his own desires over God's. Thankfully God sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, to offer us the free gift of eternal life if we would simply believe. Someday God will remove sin and death and all the ugliness that they create and until that day we should be about His business. "And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, 'Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.'" (Revelation 21:3‐4)
“I'd always been what I thought was pro‐life before. But I always had exceptions. And then I met Jacob, and that all changed. Suddenly I saw just how much God really is the author of life, and how He is the only One with the right to make any calls. So over the months I watched you guys love and care for Jacob, protecting him and fighting for him, and it taught me that we are called to do that for the ones God entrusts to our care.” ‐ Sara, British Columbia “He has made me rethink my walk with Christ and now I am trying to become a better Christian. Thanks to your family for sharing him with us!” ‐ Melissa, Kentucky “I did not grow up religious. Nor did I take my kids to church. Jacob you have changed that. Today I will do my best to form a relationship with God and to introduce him into my children’s lives. Today I will pray. You are beautiful Jacob.” ‐ Christie, Nevada “I wanted you to know that because of you and your strength I have rededicated my life to Christ and found my church family again after falling away for almost two years. Your family is so beautiful and you are all such a wonderful light for our God and Savior Jesus. Thank you for helping me get on the right track again. God Bless you and hold you close. With all the love I have.” ‐ Nickie Oman, Idaho “Jacob and your family have brought me closer God than I have been in many years. I had forgotten how much I need my faith and belief in this life. Your ability to tell your story and realize that a greater power is at work is awe‐inspiring. Jacob has inspired me to be a better mother, wife, daughter, friend, and follower of Christ. Everyday I will continue to pray for peace and comfort for your family. Thank you for sharing Jacobs life journey, he has brought more joy to this world than most could in 139 years.” ‐ Ashley Bergholtz, Illinois
