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Table Of Contents
Introduction CHAPTER 1 - Reduce Chemicals Now CHAPTER 2 - Foods To Improve Testosterone CHAPTER 3 – The Blakoe Ring CHAPTER 4 - Exercise That Rapidly Enhances Testosterone Levels In Men CHAPTER 5 -Testicle Iodine Painting CHAPTER 6 - Dopamine and Testosterone Training (AKA DAT for short) CHAPTER 7 - Maximizing Leydig Cell Function CHAPTER 8 - Supplements That Boost Testicular Performance CHAPTER 9 - Detox Your Liver CHAPTER 10 - Testosterone Boosting Behavior Conclusion
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Medical Disclaimer Without prejudice to the generality of the foregoing paragraph, bignaturaltesticles.com does not warrant that: the medical information in this document will be constantly available or available at all; or the medical information on this website is complete, true, accurate, up to date or non-misleading. Professional assistance: You must not rely on the information in this document as an alternative to medical advice from your doctor or other professional healthcare provider. If you have any specific questions about any medical matter you should consult your doctor or other professional healthcare provider. If you think you may be suffering from any medical condition you should seek immediate medical attention. You should never delay seeking medical advice, disregard medical advice, or discontinue medical treatment because of information in this document, or on the bignaturaltestes.com website. Liability: Nothing in this medical disclaimer will limit any of our liabilities in any way that is not permitted under applicable law, or exclude any of our liabilities that may not be excluded under applicable law. End Medical Disclaimer Notice.
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Introduction I created this 31 Day Testosterone Plan course because I know for a fact that a man can't be happy with low testosterone. It's impossible. Underperforming testicles will always produce less testosterone than your body needs. And trust me, a low T man isn’t a happy man. How could he be when his sex drive, muscle mass, erections and motivation to take on life all disappear? In short, he can't. But I need to warn you…. I don't subscribe to medical man’s slash and burn techniques. So there will be no tips on the latest testosterone replacement product that will only destroy your testicles… No discussions about drugs that will chemically castrate you. Or apologies for the negative side effects that BOTH of these things will bring down on you. Nope, we're going to do this instead... Starting now I'm going to begin teaching you how to boost the production of testosterone in your body. And.. Increase the size and weight of your testicles - using entirely natural methods. And your job? You need to make the commitment to say with me and to take action. Because nothing will change in your life if you don't act. But I promise, I'll make this as easy on you as possible. Sound good to you? Excellent.
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Here's your first task: Do a careful inspection of your testicles before you move on to the next chapter. Your goal is to have a good feel for the size and weight of your package. If you're the analytical type, feel free to take measurements if you'd like. But this step isn't necessary… Task number 2: Monitor your progress each morning and each night before you go to bed. And don't be too concerned if they're a bit smaller at night than when you first wake up. This happens to all men because testosterone levels are highest in the early morning hours. But if they don't grow while you sleep. Or even worse, if they shrink, you're either not taking action or you're doing something wrong. If you hit this roadblock, slow down, go back to chapter one and start over. Task number 3: The next time you ejaculate, take note of the volume. Your ejaculate is going increase dramatically in the coming days and weeks and we're going to use this to monitor your progress. One final thing I need to mention… I provide links to several different supplements and products in the chapters below. If cash is tight, don't feel like you need to go out and buy them all at once. There's plenty you can do here without spending a dime. So I suggest you pull the trigger on these when you have the disposable income. There's enough info below to keep you busy for quite a while, so no need to rush this. Let's move on to the first chapter…
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CHAPTER 1 - Reduce Chemicals Now If you want to increase your testosterone, the first thing that you need to do is get rid of all the chemicals in your body that are causing your T to plummet. And there's no question that many common chemicals you are exposed to every day are making your testicles produce less testosterone than they should be. So, where do all these harmful substances come from? You'll be surprised to find that they are just about everywhere. In the food you eat, the air you breathe and the products you smear on your body without even thinking about it. If you really do want higher levels of testosterone then your first step and absolute priority has to be to get rid of these harmful substances. And remember… If you don’t make the effort to get the chemicals out of your system now, the rest of your hard work will be wasted. In essence, you'll be fighting this battle with one arm tied behind your back. So what you need to do is detox first before you move onto the rest of the material below. Now, a detox may sound like something your girlfriend might do on an expensive spa trip, but what the word really means is detoxification, or the removal of harmful substances. This is exactly what you are doing when you eliminate these chemicals from your life and we'll dig into how to do this in a minute… But first, let's review a couple of important points…… Testosterone is the hormone in men that is responsible for the development of male sexual characteristics, including penis and testicle size. It also contributes to libido, sperm production, and many other masculine characteristics. It increases in the body just before puberty, and leads to the growth spurt, genital development and other changes you experienced once you hit puberty. Testosterone is also needed for maintaining muscle mass and strong healthy bones.
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But many men today have suboptimal levels of testosterone, so it's is no wonder their testicles are much smaller than they should be. And this low testosterone has a wide range of other unpleasant effects on the body, some of which are more noticeable than others. A decline in sex drive is probably the first thing you will notice, especially if you have always had a high libido. Less obvious signs of declining testosterone include fatigue, muscle weakness, depression and less motivation to go after life with gusto. If you’ve been hit by several of these symptoms, then you probably do have low testosterone. Especially if you've also noticed a change in the size of your testicles, have gained weight, or are often moody, irritable or unmotivated. Now here's the important point: Many common chemicals found in your environment cause your testosterone levels to go down and these are most often found in processed foods, cleaning products, pesticides and cosmetics. Some of the worst chemical offenders include… • • •
Bisphenol A. Parabens. Phthalates.
So how do you avoid these? Let's take a close look at each one and talk about the defensive steps you can take to reduce your exposure… Bisphenol A: This agent is found in plastics and many other manufactured items. Recently it's been extensively investigated by the Food and Drug Administration due to concerns about its safety, and as a result, it was banned from use in a wide range of children’s products, particularly bottles and drinking cups. And if you think about it, if it's dangerous for children it must dangerous for us adults too, right?
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Consider this…. Chinese workers who manufacture this chemical are four times more likely to suffer ED... And they're seven times more likely to have difficulty ejaculating. So yes, it's important that you remove this stuff from your life. Avoiding bisphenol A isn't always easy, as it is one of the most common components of food packaging, and it can easily leach out into your food. But it can be done. Plastic bottles, soft drink containers and canned goods usually contain BPA. It can also be found in durable paper products such as labels, cash register receipts and tickets. That fine powdered coating you feel on the receipt from the grocery store is made with Bisphenol A and these receipts can contain up to 1000 times more BPA than the amount found in a canned good. So it's a good idea to avoid handling these when possible Another smart move is to cook your own food, from real, whole ingredients. In other words, your chicken soup should come from a real bird and real fresh vegetables you buy at the grocery store. Not from a can lined with BPA, loaded with MSG, excess sodium, artificial colors, soy bean oil, artificial flavors and preservatives. If you drink canned beverages, drop the habit, and switch to beverages packaged in glass bottles. Polycarbonates plastics also contain BPA, so you need to take steps to avoid these as well. Polycarbonates are easy to spot because they're typically rigid and transparent in nature. If the letters PC are stamped on the product, you've got a polycarbonate on your hands. Plastics with the recycling label #7 are often, but not always polycarbonates. If you want to play it safe, just assume you've got a BPA container whenever you see the recycling label #7 on a plastic product. Next…
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Metal water bottles may seem like a safe alternative to plastic, but they are usually lined with a plastic coating that contains BPA as well. So you need to look for bottles clearly labeled as BPA free. Trust me; if a company went to the effort to produce a product without BPA, they are definitely going to tell you about it. So keep your eyes open for that BPA free label. Parabens: Parabens are xenoestrogens, meaning they mimic estrogen in the body leading to lower testosterone levels and testicular atrophy. You can reduce your paraben load by checking the ingredient labels on food and cosmetics packages for the following items…. •
Methylparaben
•
Propylparaben
•
Butylparaben
•
Benzylparaben
These are the most common names used to describe parabens. You'll find them occasionally on food labels, but about 85 percent of cosmetics contain them. The best way to avoid them is to use natural "Paraben Free" cosmetic and personal care items. There's a big market for these items now that the dangers of this substance have become well known, so they're fairly easy to find. Make the transition to these clean products and you'll dramatically reduce your paraben load. Phthalates: Animals exposed to Phthalates don't follow normal patterns of sexual development. Their genitals don't develop properly and their testicles are undersized compared to animals not exposed. So it's important that you avoid this endocrine disrupting chemical.
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About 80 percent of all phthalates in the United States are used as plasticizers and softening agents in vinyl products. So when you must use plastics, look for items with the recycling codes 1, 2 or 5 and avoid plastic with the recycling codes 3 and 7, as these almost always contain Phthalates. Also, any item with a strong fragrance smell will also likely contain the substance. So cosmetics and household products with a strong, fake scent should always be avoided. When it comes to plastics, your best bet is to avoid them whenever possible and NEVER heat your food in a plastic container. Also.. Eat organic produce, meat, and dairy because phthalates are used in the pesticides sprayed on human food and in the feed given to cattle. Now let's summarize what we've learned so far: Pay attention to the chemicals you come into contact with on a daily basis. These agents can mimic estrogen in your system, which can shut down T production and atrophy your testicles. Substitute natural products for those loaded with harsh chemicals. Pay attention to your soap, shampoo, cologne, deodorant and other personal care items. Also work to reduce your exposure to household cleaners, paints, gasoline, chlorine and exhaust fumes. You should also make your own food at home more often than not. And avoid packaged foods and items sprayed with pesticides. And finally, stay away from plastic whenever possible. You'll never get them out of your life entirely, but you can reduce exposure enough that their impact on your testicles will be minimal. Once you've done this, your body will be ready for the information coming next. So make it happen :)
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CHAPTER 2 - Foods To Improve Testosterone Could you stand to lose a few pounds? If so, this chapter is going to change the way you look at those pounds forever. So please, read every single word of this chapter, your hormonal health depends on it. Let's get started… Excess body fat does some brutal things to your testosterone - estrogen ratio. And just to clarify… Testosterone = manhood. And estrogen = female-hood. And the problem is, excess weight shifts your body toward the female-hood side of things. I know this sounds extreme, but there's no arguing this point. This has been verified by science and it's a fact. The agent responsible for this male to female hormone switch is called aromatase, a nasty little enzyme that lives inside your fat cells. And it has one primary mission... To turn as much of your testosterone into estrogen as it possibly can. Now here's the big thing… Your fat cells create 90% of the aromatase inside your body. So the more fat you have, the more aromatase your system is going to produce. And more aromatase means more estrogen. And less testosterone circulating in your blood stream. So what happens when you allow this to run wild? You'll be hit hard with the following: • • • •
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Feminine weight distribution Reduced ejaculation volume
In essence, you'll turn into more of a woman than a man, hormonally speaking. Don't believe me? Then consider this… The average 55 year old man today has more estrogen than the average 59 year old woman. And that's another verified fact. But this doesn't happen to every single man out there. And it doesn't have to happen to you. You can put the brakes on this negativity. And it's not that difficult to do. Let me explain... First off, you don't have be perfect. A fitness model body is not required here. You simply need to be heading in the right direction... Your body fat should slowly be going down. And your muscle mass should slowly be going up. It's no more complicated than that. Do this one thing, and your aromatase will start declining instantly. Once this happens your estrogen will start going down too… And this will be testosterone's cue to start going back up again. Get going with this and your body will begin to shift…. Away from female-hood. And toward manhood. And remember… Diet will take to this place faster than anything else. Even more so than exercise. So read the following information very carefully because it's powerful. Goal number one: Maximize your fat soluble vitamin intake because your testicles use these vitamins to synthesize testosterone.
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Goal number two: Reduce your intake of foods that promote fat accumulation. Goal number three: Time carbohydrate intake so your body uses these carbs to fill muscle glycogen stores and manufacture hormones while you sleep. I will summarize these before moving on to the carb loading technique. 1. Eat like a caveman 90% of the time 2. Limit modern processed foods 3. Control alcohol consumption 4. Remove wheat and other glutinous grains from your diet 5. Stop eating high fructose corn syrup, refined sugar, hydrogenated fat and liquid vegetable oils (especially soy). In short, think about what you'd find to eat if you we're dropped off in the wilderness with a spear and nothing else…. Examples include meat, fruit, vegetables, nuts, seeds, and eggs. Make these foods staples of every meal you eat except for your once daily carb load. Now let's move on to the fun part…. Carb Loading Instructions: This information is not included in the videos, so it's essential you read this section carefully. Here's the plan… Your first two meals of the day should consist of the paleo type foods discussed above. Limit carbs in both of these meals to no more than 40 grams… Read the sentence above again because it's really important you do this because if you exceed this number, it will impair your body’s ability to burn fat for the rest of the day. Next…. Your final meal of the day is when you want to start loading carbs.
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On days where you train hard, eat carbohydrates for dinner and continue eating them until you go to bed. You can maximize the effectiveness of this load if you exercise in the late afternoon or early evening just before you enter the carb load phase. If you must exercise in the morning, take in 30 grams of carbs and some protein post workout. Then follow the evening loading instructions above. On non-training days, limit your carb load to one small meal just before bed. About 150 grams of carbs on these non training days is the sweet spot for most men. But you may need to tweak a little bit to get this number just right. Here's how: If you wake up in the morning bloated, puffy and tired with low sex drive - you took in too many carbs the previous night. Acne is another clue that you took in too many, because the insulin spike caused by this excess will lead to eruptions. On the other hand.. If you wake up feeling lean, more muscular and horny, you got the carb load just right. So monitor things closely until you dial this number in. Now let me explain why this technique works so well…. When you consume more carbs than you burn, your blood sugar is high much of the time. Which means your insulin is high much of the time too because your body releases insulin to bring your blood sugar levels back down. Now here's the problem - and the opportunity: If you're NOT burning off the carb calories you eat, insulin immediately stores them as fat. If you ARE burning off the carb calories, insulin immediately stores them inside your muscle.
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This is insulin's primary job. To shift your calories toward fat or toward muscle storage. And your Carb Intake to Carb Burn Ratio is going to determine where those calories are going to go. Now here's where things get sweet… This insulin-carb-muscle process is Anabolic In Nature. So once you get it right…. This process stimulates several other steroids inside your body… And this steroidal activity occurs just as you head off to bed to fall into a deep, coma like sleep… Which gives your body plenty of fuel so it can begin the VITAL rebuilding process that should occur every night while you sleep… Rebuilding that involves human growth hormone, luteinizing hormone and testosterone. And since these anabolic hormones are involved, your testicles are part of this process. Because steroidal activity cannot happen without them. This explains why your testicles should ALWAYS grow while you sleep. And as mentioned earlier, if they're not, you need to slow down, back up and start all over again. Execute this and you'll begin the shift away from female-hood, toward manhood.. Because you'll be placing your system into a highly anabolic state every night while you sleep. And as long as you continue to load your carbs properly - you'll stay that way. This is a very powerful technique. So make sure you do it.
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Introduction I created this testicle enlargement course because I know for a fact that a man can't be happy with undersized testicles. It's impossible. Because undersized testicles will always produce less testosterone than your body needs. And trust me, a low T man isn’t a happy man. How could he be when his sex drive, muscle mass, erections and motivation to take on life all disappear? In short, he can't. But I need to warn you…. I don't subscribe to medical man’s slash and burn techniques. So there will be no tips on the latest testosterone replacement product that will only destroy your testicles… No discussions about drugs that will chemically castrate you. Or apologies for the negative side effects that BOTH of these things will bring down on you. Nope, we're going to do this instead... Starting now I'm going to begin teaching you how to boost the production of testosterone in your body. And.. Increase the size and weight of your testicles - using entirely natural methods. And your job? You need to make the commitment to say with me and to take action. Because nothing will change in your life if you don't act. But I promise, I'll make this as easy on you as possible. Sound good to you? Excellent. Here's your first task:
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Do a careful inspection of your testicles before you move on to the next chapter. Your goal is to have a good feel for the size and weight of your package. If you're the analytical type, feel free to take measurements if you'd like. But this step isn't necessary… Task number 2: Monitor your progress each morning and each night before you go to bed. And don't be too concerned if they're a bit smaller at night than when you first wake up. This happens to all men because testosterone levels are highest in the early morning hours. But if they don't grow while you sleep. Or even worse, if they shrink, you're either not taking action or you're doing something wrong. If you hit this roadblock, slow down, go back to chapter one and start over. Task number 3: The next time you ejaculate, take note of the volume. Your ejaculate is going increase dramatically in the coming days and weeks and we're going to use this to monitor your progress. One final thing I need to mention… I provide links to several different supplements and products in the chapters below. If cash is tight, don't feel like you need to go out and buy them all at once. There's plenty you can do here without spending a dime. So I suggest you pull the trigger on these when you have the disposable income. There's enough info below to keep you busy for quite a while, so no need to rush this. Let's move on to the first chapter…
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CHAPTER 1- Reduce Chemicals Now If you want to increase your testicle size, the first thing that you need to do is get rid of all the chemicals in your body that are causing your package to shrink. And there's no question that many common chemicals you are exposed to every day are making your testicles smaller than they should be. So, where do all these harmful substances come from? You'll be surprised to find that they are just about everywhere. In the food you eat, the air you breathe and the products you smear on your body without even thinking about it. If you really do want bigger testicles (and the higher levels of testosterone to go with them), then your first step has to be to get rid of these harmful substances. And remember… If you don’t make the effort to get the chemicals out of your system now, the rest of your hard work will be wasted. In essence, you'll be fighting this battle with one arm tied behind your back. So what you need to do is detox first before you move onto the rest of the material below. Now, a detox may sound like something your girlfriend might do on an expensive spa trip, but what the word really means is detoxification, or the removal of harmful substances. This is exactly what you are doing when you eliminate these chemicals from your life and we'll dig into how to do this in a minute… But first, let's review a couple of important points…… Testosterone is the hormone in men that is responsible for the development of male sexual characteristics, including penis and testicle size. It also contributes to libido, sperm production, and many other masculine characteristics. It increases in the body just before puberty, and leads to the growth spurt, genital development and other changes you experienced once you hit puberty. Testosterone is also needed for maintaining muscle mass and strong healthy bones.
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But many men today have suboptimal levels of testosterone, so it's is no wonder their testicles are much smaller than they should be. And this low testosterone has a wide range of other unpleasant effects on the body, some of which are more noticeable than others. A decline in sex drive is probably the first thing you will notice, especially if you have always had a high libido. Less obvious signs of declining testosterone include fatigue, muscle weakness, depression and less motivation to go after life with gusto. If you’ve been hit by several of these symptoms, then you probably do have low testosterone. Especially if you've also noticed a change in the size of your testicles, have gained weight, or are often moody, irritable or unmotivated. Now here's the important point: Many common chemicals found in your environment cause your testosterone levels to go down and these are most often found in processed foods, cleaning products, pesticides and cosmetics. Some of the worst chemical offenders include… • • •
Bisphenol A. Parabens. Phthalates.
So how do you avoid these? Let's take a close look at each one and talk about the defensive steps you can take to reduce your exposure… Bisphenol A: This agent is found in plastics and many other manufactured items. Recently it's been extensively investigated by the Food and Drug Administration due to concerns about its safety, and as a result, it was banned from use in a wide range of children’s products, particularly bottles and drinking cups. And if you think about it, if it's dangerous for children it must dangerous for us adults too, right?
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Consider this…. Chinese workers who manufacture this chemical are four times more likely to suffer ED... And they're seven times more likely to have difficulty ejaculating. So yes, it's important that you remove this stuff from your life. Avoiding bisphenol A isn't always easy, as it is one of the most common components of food packaging, and it can easily leach out into your food.
But it can be done. Plastic bottles, soft drink containers and canned goods usually contain BPA. It can also be found in durable paper products such as labels, cash register receipts and tickets. That fine powdered coating you feel on the receipt from the grocery store is made with Bisphenol A and these receipts can contain up to 1000 times more BPA than the amount found in a canned good. So it's a good idea to avoid handling these when possible Another smart move is to cook your own food, from real, whole ingredients. In other words, your chicken soup should come from a real bird and real fresh vegetables you buy at the grocery store. Not from a can lined with BPA, loaded with MSG, excess sodium, artificial colors, soy bean oil, artificial flavors and preservatives. If you drink canned beverages, drop the habit, and switch to beverages packaged in glass bottles. Polycarbonates plastics also contain BPA, so you need to take steps to avoid these as well. Polycarbonates are easy to spot because they're typically rigid and transparent in nature. If the letters PC are stamped on the product, you've got a polycarbonate on your hands. Plastics with the recycling label #7 are often, but not always polycarbonates. If you want to play it safe, just assume you've got a BPA container whenever you see the recycling label #7 on a plastic product. Next…
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Metal water bottles may seem like a safe alternative to plastic, but they are usually lined with a plastic coating that contains BPA as well. So you need to look for bottles clearly labeled as BPA free. Trust me; if a company went to the effort to produce a product without BPA, they are definitely going to tell you about it. So keep your eyes open for that BPA free label. Parabens: Parabens are xenoestrogens, meaning they mimic estrogen in the body leading to lower testosterone levels and testicular atrophy. You can reduce your paraben load by checking the ingredient labels on food and cosmetics packages for the following items…. •
Methylparaben
•
Propylparaben
•
Butylparaben
•
Benzylparaben
These are the most common names used to describe parabens. You'll find them occasionally on food labels, but about 85 percent of cosmetics contain them. The best way to avoid them is to use natural "Paraben Free" cosmetic and personal care items. There's a big market for these items now that the dangers of this substance have become well known, so they're fairly easy to find. Make the transition to these clean products and you'll dramatically reduce your paraben load. Phthalates: Animals exposed to Phthalates don't follow normal patterns of sexual development. Their genitals don't develop properly and their testicles are undersized compared to animals not exposed. So it's important that you avoid this endocrine disrupting chemical.
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About 80 percent of all phthalates in the United States are used as plasticizers and softening agents in vinyl products. So when you must use plastics, look for items with the recycling codes 1, 2 or 5 and avoid plastic with the recycling codes 3 and 7, as these almost always contain Phthalates. Also, any item with a strong fragrance smell will also likely contain the substance. So cosmetics and household products with a strong, fake scent should always be avoided. When it comes to plastics, your best bet is to avoid them whenever possible and NEVER heat your food in a plastic container. Also.. Eat organic produce, meat, and dairy because phthalates are used in the pesticides sprayed on human food and in the feed given to cattle. Now let's summarize what we've learned so far: Pay attention to the chemicals you come into contact with on a daily basis. These agents can mimic estrogen in your system, which can shut down T production and atrophy your testicles. Substitute natural products for those loaded with harsh chemicals. Pay attention to your soap, shampoo, cologne, deodorant and other personal care items. Also work to reduce your exposure to household cleaners, paints, gasoline, chlorine and exhaust fumes. You should also make your own food at home more often than not. And avoid packaged foods and items sprayed with pesticides. And finally, stay away from plastic whenever possible. You'll never get them out of your life entirely, but you can reduce exposure enough that their impact on your testicles will be minimal. Once you've done this, your body will be ready for the information coming next. So make it happen :)
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CHAPTER - 2 Foods To Improve Testicular Performance Could you stand to lose a few pounds? If so, this chapter is going to change the way you look at those pounds forever. So please, read every single word of this chapter, your hormonal health depends on it. Let's get started… Excess body fat does some brutal things to your testosterone - estrogen ratio. And just to clarify… Testosterone = manhood. And estrogen = female-hood. And the problem is, excess weight shifts your body toward the female-hood side of things. I know this sounds extreme, but there's no arguing this point. This has been verified by science and it's a fact. The agent responsible for this male to female hormone switch is called aromatase, a nasty little enzyme that lives inside your fat cells. And it has one primary mission... To turn as much of your testosterone into estrogen as it possibly can. Now here's the big thing… Your fat cells create 90% of the aromatase inside your body. So the more fat you have, the more aromatase your system is going to produce. And more aromatase means more estrogen. And less testosterone circulating in your blood stream. So what happens when you allow this to run wild? You'll be hit hard with the following: • •
Low sex drive Shrinking testicles
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• • • •
Expanding breasts. Erection problems Feminine weight distribution Reduced ejaculation volume
In essence, you'll turn into more of a woman than a man, hormonally speaking. Don't believe me? Then consider this… The average 55 year old man today has more estrogen than the average 59 year old woman. And that's another verified fact. But this doesn't happen to every single man out there. And it doesn't have to happen to you. You can put the brakes on this negativity. And it's not that difficult to do. Let me explain... First off, you don't have be perfect. A fitness model body is not required here. You simply need to be heading in the right direction... Your body fat should slowly be going down. And your muscle mass should slowly be going up. It's no more complicated than that. Do this one thing, and your aromatase will start declining instantly. Once this happens your estrogen will start going down too… And this will be testosterone's cue to start going back up again. Get going with this and your body will begin to shift…. Away from female-hood. And toward manhood. And remember… Diet will take to this place faster than anything else. Even more so than exercise. So read the following information very carefully because it's powerful. Goal number one:
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Maximize your fat soluble vitamin intake because your testicles use these vitamins to synthesize testosterone. Goal number two: Reduce your intake of foods that promote fat accumulation. Goal number three: Time carbohydrate intake so your body uses these carbs to fill muscle glycogen stores and manufacture hormones while you sleep. I will summarize these before moving on to the carb loading technique. 1. Eat like a caveman 90% of the time 2. Limit modern processed foods 3. Control alcohol consumption 4. Remove wheat and other glutinous grains from your diet 5. Stop eating high fructose corn syrup, refined sugar, hydrogenated fat and liquid vegetable oils (especially soy). In short, think about what you'd find to eat if you we're dropped off in the wilderness with a spear and nothing else…. Examples include meat, fruit, vegetables, nuts, seeds, and eggs. Make these foods staples of every meal you eat except for your once daily carb load. Now let's move on to the fun part…. Carb Loading Instructions: This information is not included in the videos, so it's essential you read this section carefully. Here's the plan… Your first two meals of the day should consist of the paleo type foods discussed above. Limit carbs in both of these meals to no more than 40 grams… Read the sentence above again because it's really important you do this because if you exceed this number, it will impair your body’s ability to burn fat for the rest of the day.
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Next…. Your final meal of the day is when you want to start loading carbs. On days where you train hard, eat carbohydrates for dinner and continue eating them until you go to bed. You can maximize the effectiveness of this load if you exercise in the late afternoon or early evening just before you enter the carb load phase. If you must exercise in the morning, take in 30 grams of carbs and some protein post workout. Then follow the evening loading instructions above. On non-training days, limit your carb load to one small meal just before bed. About 150 grams of carbs on these non training days is the sweet spot for most men. But you may need to tweak a little bit to get this number just right. Here's how: If you wake up in the morning bloated, puffy and tired with low sex drive - you took in too many carbs the previous night. Acne is another clue that you took in too many, because the insulin spike caused by this excess will lead to eruptions. On the other hand.. If you wake up feeling lean, more muscular and horny, you got the carb load just right. So monitor things closely until you dial this number in. Now let me explain why this technique works so well…. When you consume more carbs than you burn, your blood sugar is high much of the time. Which means your insulin is high much of the time too because your body releases insulin to bring your blood sugar levels back down. Now here's the problem - and the opportunity: If you're NOT burning off the carb calories you eat, insulin immediately stores them as fat.
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If you ARE burning off the carb calories, insulin immediately stores them inside your muscle. This is insulin's primary job. To shift your calories toward fat or toward muscle storage. And your Carb Intake to Carb Burn Ratio is going to determine where those calories are going to go. Now here's where things get sweet… This insulin-carb-muscle process is Anabolic In Nature. So once you get it right…. This process stimulates several other steroids inside your body… And this steroidal activity occurs just as you head off to bed to fall into a deep, coma like sleep… Which gives your body plenty of fuel so it can begin the VITAL rebuilding process that should occur every night while you sleep… Rebuilding that involves human growth hormone, luteinizing hormone and testosterone. And since these anabolic hormones are involved, your testicles are part of this process. Because steroidal activity cannot happen without them. This explains why your testicles should ALWAYS grow while you sleep. And as mentioned earlier, if they're not, you need to slow down, back up and start all over again. Execute this and you'll begin the shift away from female-hood, toward manhood.. Because you'll be placing your system into a highly anabolic state every night while you sleep. And as long as you continue to load your carbs properly - you'll stay that way. This is a very powerful technique. So make sure you do it.
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Multi Orgasmic Lover Owner’s Manual Waiver of Liability Multi Orgasmic Lover is an intensive course that involves performing physical practices. If you have physical injuries, have had prostate surgery or have other medical issues, consult a doctor before proceeding. Always proceed at your own speed and stop immediately if anything hurts or feels uncomfortable. By proceeding with this training you agree to assume all risk of injuries associated with participation, including but not limited to pulled muscles, pain, relationship issues or death. You hereby acknowledge that you are physically fit and mentally capable of performing the exercises in this program. If you have medical issues, you agree to consult a doctor before proceeding. After having read this waiver and knowing these facts, by proceeding with this program, you agree to HOLD HARMLESS, WAIVE AND RELEASE Jim Benson, Evoka Media and all its officers, agents, employees, organizers, representatives, and successors from any responsibility, liabilities, demands, or claims of any kind arising out of your participation in the Multi Orgasmic Lover Training program.
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Welcome!
The Multi Orgasmic Lover training is a journey. By the end of the journey, you’ll be a different person and a different lover. You’re about to learn bedroom skills that’ll pay off for the rest of your life. This is your opportunity to deeply explore yourself as a sexual being; to breakthrough old blocks that have kept you from loving yourself and others, and to carve new neural pathways of pleasure in your mind and body. By the end of the course, you’ll … Ø Learn how to systematically expand your capacity for pleasure, so both you and your partner can enjoy lovemaking a lot more. Ø Know how to relax during sex, so you can stop worrying about performing or about “doing well” and be in the moment instead. Ø Find out just how powerful breath can be. You’ll learn how to use breath to manage your arousal levels, to increase sexual bliss, and to connect more powerfully with your partner. Ø Learn to master your ejaculation. You’ll choose if or when you want to ejaculate. Ø Begin to have full-‐body or multiple orgasmic experiences without ejaculating. Everything you’re about to learn in this course has been tested by thousands of men from all over the world. It’s based on ancient practices, modern research and my own personal experiences as well as that of my students.
What you’ll be doing in this training You will be retraining your body to experience pleasure in a new way. You’ll do this by doing a number of exercises designed to open new pathways in your body and expand your capacity for pleasure. You will be masturbating, and applying these exercises to your masturbation sessions. (You may notice that when I’m referring to masturbation in the context of these new exercises that I replace it with the term “self-‐pleasuring” to distinguish it from a more results-‐focused or ejaculation-‐focused outcome.) The idea is to pleasure yourself close to “the point of no return,” beyond which you would surely ejaculate. You then apply some of the techniques you’ll be learning in this training until your arousal drops down — not entirely, but somewhat. You’ll Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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return to self-‐pleasuring until you’re close to ejaculating again. Then you’ll apply the techniques once more. Over time the techniques become as easy and natural and effortless as sex itself (well, at least as sex should be!) That’s the bare-‐bones plan. You may have heard of this practice before; it’s also known as “edging,” as in, coming close to the edge of ejaculation, but not going over it. When guys “edge” during intercourse, it’s often called “karezza,” or “coitus reservatus.” But what distinguishes this program from the standard practice of just stopping before you ejaculate are the following aspects of the Multi Orgasmic Lover program: • • • • • •
Releasing blocks Healing shame Learning to relax Adding the “ME Breath” Connecting sex and heart Using sound and vocalization
These parts of the program not only will serve you well as you learn how to master your ejaculation, they are hugely important keys in helping you become a multi-‐ orgasmic man. You can — and should — practice all of the techniques in this program solo, in your own self-‐pleasuring sessions. In Module 10, I talk about how to include partners in these practices; at any time, you can skip ahead to that module to learn more about how to do that. But I highly recommend learning to fly solo before carrying passengers!
How to get the most out of this training
Over the years that I’ve offered this program, I’ve noticed that guys who follow the guidelines below seem to get maximum results from the program. If you follow these suggestions and keep them as your context while you proceed through the modules, you are almost guaranteed to end up with the results you want.
Determine your intention.
What do you want to accomplish in this program? When you imagine yourself as a lover five years from now, what will you want to have experienced? In the realm of sexuality, what do you want your inner state to be? Write out these goals and refer to them frequently throughout the program.
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Do these modules in order.
This program has been carefully designed to give you maximum chance for success. If there are exercises that you don’t resonate with, it’s OK to skip them, but only after you’ve given them a good testing period — usually, in my experience, at least a week. The exception is Module 10 where I discuss integrating these practices with a partner. Once you’ve reached Module 5, you can refer to Module 10 at any time.
Set time aside.
I’ve designed Multi Orgasmic Lover so that it can accommodate a busy lifestyle.
There are two kinds of practices in this program: Self-‐pleasuring and supplemental. The self-‐pleasuring sessions are generally 20-‐30 minutes long; depending on how full your life is, you can do between 1 and 5 of these sessions per week. Like anything else, the more time you give to the self-‐pleasuring practices, the faster you’ll progress. The supplemental practices can be done as part of a morning ritual, or right before your self-‐pleasuring practices. Usually they are between 2 and 5 minutes long. To give yourself maximum chance for success with this program, do what you can to clear time in your calendar for the practices, and actually schedule them. Add your practice time to your calendar as soon as you get your “home-‐fun” assignment from the audio recordings. If you live with your sexual partner, let them know that you’ll be setting aside time to practice. Remember, you’re worth it!
Be kind to yourself.
You’re going to be engaged in the process of re-‐wiring an outdated system. You’re changing old habits and beliefs. You’re diving directly into pockets of fear and anxiety. This process of change will go more smoothly if you make room for your frustration, your struggle, and feelings of failure. Give yourself a break. Imagine that you’re teaching a child to tie his shoes — would you yell at him for not getting it right away? Probably not. I would hope you would be supportive and caring. Treat yourself in a similar way.
Be willing to change your patterns.
Even though you may not be able to fully see the habitual patterns that lock you into undesirable behaviors, simply cultivating the willingness to change can make a huge difference. I know guys who, as they’re engaged in their supplemental practices, add Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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simple spoken affirmations like, “I’m willing to change my old habits and beliefs about sex,” or “I’m changing and growing as a sexual man.”
Stop if something hurts.
I’m serious about this one. If you experience sharp or dull pain in your genitals or surrounding areas, stop the practices immediately and make an appointment with your doctor to talk about it. Only resume the training once the pain has subsided, and even then, proceed with caution.
Learn technique, drop technique.
You are training your body to forget your training and simply take the action that it is designed for. In this case, that means multiple orgasms without ejaculation! I don’t want you to become a sex technician. I’m encouraging you to learn a practice, and as soon as you can, forget about it. Let your body take over. My intention is that you become so unconsciously competent with these practices that, in your lovemaking, you barely notice you’re doing them!
Don’t get preoccupied with your “blocks.”
If your energy flow is a river, and your energy blocks are boulders in the river, remember that the river keeps flowing around the blocks. If you focus only on the boulders, you never get to enjoy the river! The Multi Orgasmic Lover program is designed to wear down those boulders, or even roll them out of the river entirely. Over time, as you stay with these practices, those boulders turn to stones and pebbles, and your “energy river” gets smoother and wider.
Get support.
Support can take many forms. Some guys recruit their friends to join them in the program and use each other to stay accountable to the practices. If you have a coach, a therapist, or an accountability partner, you can enlist them to help you stay on track. And if you haven’t already, you can also join our online community: The Sexual Mastery Inner Circle. It’s a great way to share your experiences, bounce ideas off other men, and get your important questions answered.
Become friends with your shame.
I’ve done a lot of research in the multi orgasmic arena, and no one out there is talking about sexual shame. I’m convinced that unacknowledged shame is at the root of a vast majority of sexual issues, and also why most guys drop out of programs like mine. I want you to get to know your shame; to de-‐fang it; and to help you know that you’re not alone. Everyone has sexual shame in one form or another. And it doesn’t need to run your sex life.
Focus on your internal experience.
I’m encouraging you to give up porn and mental fantasy for the length of time you’re actively engaged with these modules. Why? Not because they’re inherently bad, but
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because they direct your attention away from yourself. You’re masturbating to an external object, a fantasy woman or a porn princess. Cultivating greater awareness of your sensate experience requires you to bring your attention to yourself and your experience in the moment. Think of this internally-‐directed focus as a way of expanding your “pleasure palette.”
Cultivate a no-‐agenda, no-‐goal attitude. The mind loves to create a goal and reach it. But I want to encourage you to balance your desire to attain a high level of mastery over your sexual energy with a “let go” attitude. Living this paradox is like walking a razor’s edge, and is a very high level of functioning. Some guys will fool their minds by setting a goal to not have an agenda! Other guys will regularly remind themselves that the journey is as important as the destination. Do whatever works for you.
Treat yourself to pleasure.
It sounds simplistic, but saying, “yes” to pleasure is an important step in becoming a fully orgasmic man. In the section below I describe how to use a Pleasure List as a way of structuring your life so that you spend more time doing things that bring you joy. Just do it. Trust me, this may sound trivial but it’s not. This will make a huge difference in you reaching your goals.
Learn to receive and surrender.
I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to learn to receive, and ultimately, to learn to surrender. A lot of people associate surrender with weakness but that couldn’t be more inaccurate. The strength IS in your ability to surrender. You could do all of these practices in this program, but if you didn’t expand your capacity to receive and let go, you probably wouldn’t be able to achieve full-‐body, non-‐ ejaculatory orgasms. I’ll say more about this right now.
Expanding Your Pleasure 1. Receiving from yourself Nearly all men these days have been trained to pay attention to the woman we’re with rather than ourselves. This phenomenon creates an internal dialogue that further separates us from our in-‐the-‐moment experience. We’re asking questions in our head such as, “Is she enjoying herself?” “Am I good enough?” “What should I do next?” And we forget about directing those same questions toward ourselves: “Am I enjoying this?” “Does this feel good to me?” “What would feel better for me right now?” Techniques are great and have their place — I teach and use plenty of them! — but they are better off serving the situation instead of dominating it. Again, many of us have become fixated on a partner-‐pleasing technique that we’ve adopted when in Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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fact our energy would be better spent learning to 1) more completely enter our “animal bodies” and experience our “fuck” energy, and 2) feel and appropriately express our own needs, wants, desires, and preferences. Receiving from yourself also means setting time aside for pleasure, and learning to touch yourself in a way that gives you the most pleasure. This may be an “unlearning” for many of us. We’re used to giving to others, and then if there’s any left over, we get a little bit. Especially regarding self-‐pleasuring: Many of us were raised in sexually repressive environments, and the times we spent touching ourselves sexually, in our childhood or adolescence, were most likely short-‐lived and furtive, with the specter of “getting caught” hanging over us. The Pleasure List. As we begin to give to ourselves first, we create new pathways of pleasure. I want to encourage you, right now, to create a “Pleasure List” that includes activities you can do that give you a sense of joy or renewal. These activities can cost money or not, and can be enjoyed solo or with another. Examples from my personal list: • • • • • • • • • •
Take a hot tub Sitting meditation Self Pleasuring Walk in nature Bounce on trampoline Receive a massage Dance to music (solo or with others) Sex with my partner Play frisbee on the beach Visit a hot springs for a minimum of 2 days
Make this a long list for yourself, and keep adding to it over time. Post it in a noticeable location — or even make it as digital wallpaper for your phone, tablet or computer. Then do at least one thing from your Pleasure List every day, and even more than that, if you can. Working with your Pleasure List is a great way to make the process of giving to yourself more conscious. Slow down. Make the time. No matter how busy you are, you can always find time to do something for yourself during the day. Some days it might seem that all you have time for is taking a deep breath and giving thanks before eating a meal! But if you can take a little more time, there’s a chance for you to deepen your experience of yourself. Give yourself an hour if you can. Set an intention to relax and receive. Warm the room, if it’s not already warm. Light candles, put on some music. Take a bath with scented oils.
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For some guys this can feel like an intimidating thing to take on because it’s easily associated with something that only women would do for themselves. However, when you start to relax into honoring the sensations of your own body it directly opens the path to more pleasure and thus the experience of being able to let go into multiple non-‐ejaculatory orgasms. Self-‐massage is a great way to attune to what feels good to you. What kind of touch do you most enjoy? Deep and slow, light and ticklish, percussive and intense? Do you like a variety? Perhaps different areas of your body prefer different kinds of touch at different times. Practice giving this kind of massage to yourself before a self-‐pleasuring session. Experiment with touching your entire body before focusing on your genitals. Change positions, writhe and make some sound. Try using a little massage oil everywhere on your body. If you want to focus on your genitals, again, take time to explore what feels good to you. Do your best to break out of your adolescent habits: Allow the journey of sensation to be the goal, NOT a quick, ejaculatory orgasm. Explore your perineum. Play with your balls. Experiment with different strokes on the shaft and head of your cock. Meanwhile, continue to touch yourself everywhere. Continue to writhe, breathe deeply, and make sounds. And again, understand that your masculine nature may not particularly enjoy this process! That part of you is more interested in goals, results, analysis, and challenge. But this self-‐massage exploration is a chance for you to cultivate your inner multi orgasmic nature. Be willing to move through your discomfort and explore this softer, less “driven” aspect of yourself.
2. Receiving from a partner
Once you know what most turns you on, you’re better able to communicate your wants and desires to your partner. For many men, this is even more challenging than spending time consciously self-‐pleasuring. Perhaps you’ve been wounded in the past by partners who rejected your requests and you’ve made an internal decision not to ever let that happen again. If you notice that you’re tentative in communicating your desires, then it may be that learning to receive from a partner is a process of recovery of a lost part of yourself. You can learn to ask for what you want as an adult who can take care of himself no matter what happens. This adult knows how to talk to himself to get through challenging moments in life, knows how to hear “no” without taking it personally, and knows how to negotiate to get needs met as best he can. Directly asking for sex. Many of us are afraid of saying something like, “I’ve been noticing how beautiful you look today, and I’d love to make love with you tonight.” We’re afraid of rejection, and would rather try another route, like giving our partner Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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a shoulder massage and hoping she’ll get “in the mood.” Try the direct approach instead. Even if she says No, she’ll probably be watching to see if you react negatively. If you don’t, she’ll find that attractive, and you may find that her No changes to a Yes later on. Asking for the kind of touch you want. One of my early sexual partners was not interested in my cock at all, it seemed, and I started to make up a story that my genitals weren’t attractive or desirable. Many times I wanted my cock held, without sexual stimulation, but I wasn’t able to say anything for fear of rejection. Later I found out that often a woman will not touch a man’s genitals because she’s afraid that doing so will make him think that she wants sex. So I eventually learned (it took many years) to say something like, “I’m not feeling particularly sexual now, but it would be deeply comforting for me if you would hold my cock.” If she agreed, then I’d tell her just how I wanted to be held, which was another great practice opportunity – learning I could be held exactly how I wanted. Most women are happy to oblige with this kind of thing, if they’re asked directly. Remember: you’re not a nerdy adolescent, or a “beggar with a bowl,” looking for scraps of sexual-‐loving attention. You’re an adult male who loves himself enough to get his needs met. This process of asking for what you want in the bedroom has a ripple effect on the rest of your life. When you take more charge of getting your pleasure needs met, you’ll find out pretty quickly the areas of your life where you’re not living fully. You then naturally begin asking for what you want in those areas. OK, let’s begin to move into our curriculum.
Before Starting the Program
1. Print out this manual. Having it physically next to you will make it much easier to follow the home-‐fun and to review modules. 2. Read the release waiver above. You are proceeding through this program at your own risk. 3. Create your Pleasure List in the space below and then remove it from this manual and post it in a place where you’ll see it every day. Place at least three of the items on your to-‐do list for the next week, or even more times if you can. _________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________
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Module 1: The Six Core Principles This module is the launching pad for the rest of the program. In this module, you’ll learn the six core principles of mastering sexual energy, having multiple orgasms, controlling ejaculation and experiencing full body pleasure. You’ll learn the six different types of male orgasms. Chances are, you’ve only experienced the first type — The standard “garden variety” ejaculatory orgasm. We’ll cover the five other types that you might experience on the path to sexual mastery. We’ll talk about the pace of the program, so you can figure out exactly how fast you want to work at the skills and practices. Like anything else in life, the more you practice, the faster you’ll master the skill. Fortunately, you only need about 20 – 30 minutes of practice 3 times a week to learn this skill. However, to master it in a short period of time and have the most powerful results I recommend that you simply make it a part of your daily practice. Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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(Research into neuroplasticity shows that it takes about 30 consecutive days to form new neural pathways in the brain and create new habits.)
Preparation
__I’ve completed all items under “Before Starting The Program”
Slide Show for Module 1 Audio
The Module 1 Audio refers to a Slide Show. We’ve included the slides below to make it easy for you to follow along.
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Listen to Module 1 audio: Introduction to Multi Orgasmic Lover (72 minutes)
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Watch the Module 1 video: Self Massage (11 minutes)
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Home-‐fun
1. Consider how you’d like to relate to porn during your training, including considering refraining from viewing porn completely. Commit to your
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decision. Give yourself 2-‐3 self-‐massage sessions during the next week. Take a day or two off between them, allowing 20-‐30 minutes for each one. If you masturbate during the week, do your best to not ejaculate. Re-‐read the “Expanding your Pleasure” section above. Make your Pleasure List. Do a different item from your Pleasure List three times per week. Set up a system of support, communicating with a friend, therapist, or other “safe person” about what you’re trying to accomplish. (Or journal, if you prefer.)
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 2
___ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments.
___ My perineum and pelvic floor feels soft, relaxed and pliable. For some guys this will be the case right away; other guys may need ten or more self-‐massage sessions before the area around their genitals feels soft and spongy. •
For guys whose pelvic floor is already soft: You can immediately move on to Module 2 after a single self-‐massage session. Give yourself an occasional (monthly) self-‐massage session as a kind of “sexual health maintenance.”
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If you have some amount of genital armoring: Spend a week of 2-‐3 sessions of self-‐massage. Then move on to Module 2 while continuing to self-‐massage twice a week until you notice a significant softening of the musculature in the pelvic floor.
Module 2: Dissolving Sexual Shame Listen to Module 2 audio: Shame and Trauma (59 minutes) __ Check when completed
Watch The Module 2 videos: Pelvic Rocking and PC Pump (11 minutes total)
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Home-‐fun
1. Pick one example of Toxic Shame that comes up for you in your solo sex life, and one that comes from how you've been with a partner in the past. Go through the 5 A's practice with these feelings.
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2. How is Self-‐Massage going for you? If it's benefitting you, keep it up. If not, drop it and start 'no agenda self-‐pleasuring' practice. This is gentle, healing self-‐touch through the whole pelvic area and the rest of your body without a goal or agenda. 3. Begin daily PC Pumps. 30 per day, in three sets of 10. Do the “pulsing” version for the first 9, then squeeze and hold the tenth one for 6 or 7 seconds. Rest before beginning the next set. OK to do while driving, standing in line, etc. 4. Do the Pelvic Rocking practice daily for 3 minutes minimum. Ultimately, you’ll choose the position that is most comfortable for you, but make sure to try at least 2 different positions at the beginning. 5. Continue to do three items from your Pleasure List (You DID write your Pleasure List, right?). Pick three things that bring you pleasure and do them this week. Remember, this is a key piece to reaching your goals. 6. Continue to stay true to your commitment to watching less or no porn.
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 3
__ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments.
__ 3 sets of 10 PC Pumps are easy for me. I can hold the squeeze on the tenth one for 6 or 7 seconds, no problem. __ The Pelvic Rocking exercises are starting to feel like second nature; the motion is easy and fluid for me, and I don’t have a problem isolating my pelvis. __ I am feeling eager to add new skills to my practice.
Module 3: Relaxation and Sex Listen to the Module 3 audio: Relaxation (61 minutes) __ Check when completed
Watch The Module 3 video: Sexual Breathing (6 minutes)
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Home-‐fun 1. 2. 3. 4.
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like it, you can increase your practice time to 10 minutes and continue to make it part of your daily routine. 5. If you want to pleasure yourself, go ahead! Continue the practice of no-‐ agenda pleasuring from Module 2. 6. Get out that Pleasure List and add ways of physically relaxing to it. Massage, hot tubs or baths, guided meditations – those kinds of things that I mentioned earlier. Then DO them! That’s right, move them from your Pleasure List to your To-‐Do list for the day. Do at least three items from your Pleasure List each week that you’re following the program.
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 4
__ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments.
__ The Sexual Breathing practice is starting to feel like second nature to me. I find that during other daily activities, I’ve become more aware of my breath. As a result, I’m beginning to make subtle changes in how I breathe throughout the day. __ I’ve experimented with the Bonus Module “Streaming” practice for at least seven days, 3-‐5 minutes a day. I either 1) Don’t enjoy it, and am ready to move on, or 2) Enjoy it and can integrate it into my daily practice. __ I’ve integrated my current skillset and feeling ready to add new skills to my practice.
Module 4: Sexual Confidence Listen to the Module 4 audio: Confidence (52 minutes) __ Check when completed (Includes listening to the Evolved Lover meditation)
Watch The Module 4 video: ME Breath (11 minutes)
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Home-‐fun 1. Schedule and commit to up to five (but no less than two) 30-‐minute self-‐ pleasuring sessions over the upcoming week. In your self-‐pleasuring sessions, apply the ME Breath: Go up to an 8, then slow down or stop, and use the "ME" Breath in that moment. Bring yourself back down to a 5, then work up to an 8 again, repeating the process at least 3 times! 2. Increase your PC pumps to 60 a day. 6 sets of 10. Squeeze and hold on the 10th one for about 6 or 7 seconds. 3. If there is any practice that you’re getting great benefit from, continue that – based on your time and interest level. That means if you’re still doing the Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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self-‐massage and benefitting, continue that. If you enjoy pelvic rocking, or the Streaming practice, continue that – but not necessarily as part of your self-‐ pleasuring. If you don’t have the time, just focus on self-‐pleasuring with the ME Breath. 4. Stay committed to your no-‐ or reduced-‐porn commitment. 5. Review and update your Pleasure List. Anything else you can add? Do you want to step up your game? Do 1 item minimum per day from the list. This week, choose something from your list that you haven’t done lately, and enjoy that.
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 5
__ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments.
__ I’ve completed at least two self-‐pleasuring sessions using the ME Breath, and I have questions about the practice. (The ME Breath is the backbone of this program, so we’re giving it a lot of attention, and Module 5 will definitely help you deepen your experience. Check out Module 5’s audio after two self-‐pleasuring sessions where you use the ME Breath. In Module 5, I’ll answer more questions, review the ME Breath in greater detail, and bring out what I call the Helpful Suggestion Bucket that will help you get the most out of the practice.) __ I’m easily able to handle 60 PC pumps a day, and squeezing for 6-‐7 seconds at the end of each set of 10 is no problem.
Module 5: Sexual Training Q & A Listen to the Module 5 audio: Midterm Assessment! (59 minutes)
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Review The Module 5 video: ME Breath (11 minutes)
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Home-‐fun
You may have noticed that some home-‐fun repeats every module. Let’s talk about that for a moment. 1. There’s your Pleasure List. I’m going to stop reminding you about it, but I want you to continue to use it in a way that works for you for the rest of the program.
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2. Same for your no-‐ or reduced-‐porn commitment. Maybe it’s second nature for you at this point, to spend time pleasuring yourself instead of looking at images of naked women. If so, WOW, congratulations! In any case, I won’t remind you any more about your porn commitment – but keep it up, whatever you’ve committed to. 3. You should be doing 6 sets of 10 PC pumps every day, squeezing and holding on the 10th one for about 6 or 7 seconds. Keep these going for the remainder of the program; for some of you, they’ll turn out to be one of the most important factors in becoming multi-‐orgasmic. But I’m not going to continue to add them to your homework list. 4. Self-‐pleasuring practice: I will continue to modify this for your home-‐fun in each of the next three modules. But the basics remain the same. And they are: Set aside from 2 to 5 half-‐hour pleasuring sessions per week for each week you stay at this module level. You can make them 15 or 20 minutes if time is tight, or an hour if time isn’t an issue. You will be self-‐pleasuring (as I’ve described in the audio) using the ME Breath. In your self-‐pleasuring sessions, go up to an 8, then slow down or stop, and use the "ME" Breath in that moment. Bring yourself back down to a 5, then work up to an 8 again, repeating the process at least 3 times. 5. If there is any practice that you’re getting great benefit from, continue that – based on your time and interest level. That means if you’re still doing the self-‐massage and benefitting, continue that. If you enjoy pelvic rocking, or the shaking to the dissolving blocks music, continue those. But if time is tight, let them go and focus on your pleasuring sessions instead. 6. Do at least one item from the list of Extracurriculars on the audio, and do it at least 5 times before the end of this program. That means 5 yoga or martial arts classes, or getting 5 breathwork sessions, or 5 hours of ecstatic dancing on 5 different occasions. 7. There’s no video for this module, but you can always review the ME Breath video and follow along with me to make sure you’ve got the fundamentals “under your belt.”
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 6
__ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments.
__ The ME Breath is feeling easy for me. You’ll know this because — like when you started to find your groove driving a stick shift car for the first time — you’ll be feeling comfortable with the technical aspects of the ME Breath: Pelvic Rocking, PC Pump and Sexual Breathing will all be merging in an integrated experience. For some guys this might take one, two or even three months. Other guys will get it right Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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away. But even guys who get it immediately should still spend a minimum of at least a week on this module before proceeding. Don’t rush to the next one! Our next three modules will include variations of this same breath, so make sure you’re grooving on the ME Breath before you move on. __ I’m enjoying my self-‐pleasuring sessions and generally look forward to them. Yes, there’s often resistance to self-‐pleasuring practices, but generally you should enjoy them rather than see them as another item on your to-‐do list. If you’re feeling obligated to do them, take a break for a week and come back with fresh energy.
Module 6: The Heart and Sex Link NOTE FOR MODULES 6 – 10: Watch the videos before listening to the audios for all of the remaining modules.
Watch The Module 6 video: Heartgasm (9 minutes)
__ Check when completed
Listen to the Module 6 audio: The Heart/Sex Link (42 minutes)
__ Check when completed
Home-‐fun
1. Schedule and commit to up to five (but no less than two) 30-‐minute self-‐ pleasuring sessions this week. In your self-‐pleasuring sessions, apply the ME Breath: Go up to an 8, then slow down or stop, and use the "Me" Breath in that moment to draw the energy up to the heart. Exhale the energy out or down, as the video demonstrates. Bring yourself back down to a 5, then work up to an 8 again, repeating this process at least 3 times!
2. If you think you grew up in “Camp Wimpy,” do one of more of the practices to activate your Fuck energy. These include: •
Learn to box
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Take a contact martial arts class (where you will hit and get hit)
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Connect with your anger and find ways to physically express it (review the audio for details)
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Stomp your feet, squat in a horse stance and slap your thighs like a sumo wrestler
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Focus on your genitals while loudly speaking swear words
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3. If you think you grew up in “Camp Bully,” do one of more of the practices to activate your Heart energy. Those included: •
Contact the pain of your guarded, broken heart (alone, or with support)
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Think of those you love or care deeply about
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Practice a loving-‐kindness meditation
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Imagine you’re seeing the world through the “eyes of the heart”
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Date and have sex with heart-‐centered partners and allow yourself to love them
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Watch heart-‐wrenching movies or listen to songs that make you cry.
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Look up sad movie moments on youtube.com
4. If this whole idea of different Camps doesn’t work for you, just do the ME Breath practice. 5. Set up a time for a Summit Meeting between your Heart and your Genitals, and then do it. Give yourself half an hour or so to set it up, execute it, and then write about it afterwards.
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 7
__ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments, including a minimum of six Heartgasm self-‐pleasuring sessions. __ The ME Breath — all the way to my heart — is feeling smooth and natural for me, and I’m aware of an increase in connection between my heart and genitals. __ I want to experience even more than what I’ve experienced so far. Many guys will be ready to move on to the next module — where we will be working with the throat — after half a dozen individual sessions of doing the Heartgasm ME Breath. Other guys might take a month or more on this module. It’s not highly common but I do know at least two guys that didn’t get much out of the next two modules and simply returned to this one! A great example of how One Size Does Not Fit All in this program. __ I’ve been doing my Extracurricular (from Module 5) and it’s feeling great. (If this isn’t the case, try another Extracurricular!)
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Module 7: Your Wild Animal and The Upper Limit Watch The Module 7 videos: Key Sound and Crazy Throat (15 minutes total) __ Check when completed
Listen to the Module 7 audio: Your Wild Animal and the Upper Limit (39 minutes)
__ Check when completed
Home-‐fun
1. Schedule and commit to as many as five (but no less than two) self-‐ pleasuring sessions per week, 30 minutes each, using the ME Breath to draw energy up to the throat and back down when you get to an “8”. Use the Key Sound, as described in the video, on every other exhalation during the ME Breath. 2. Try both the “high” and “low” Crazy Throat practice. Do one or both of them for a minute or two each day. Bonus: Experiment with a few seconds of Crazy Throat as part of a normal conversation with a friend. 3. Pillow work and growling every day! Remember to do your best to feel that connection between your root – the bottom of your pelvis – and your hands and arms, as well as your throat. Make it a full-‐body experience.
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 8
__ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments, including at least 6 self-‐ pleasuring sessions using the Key Sound. __ I’m feeling comfortable using the Key Sound during the ME Breath. I’m experiencing a significant shift as a result of using more sound in my self-‐pleasuring sessions, and I’m ready for more! (If the Key Sound doesn’t work for you, return to the Heartgasm breath and stay there.) __ I’m feeling comfortable with the pillow-‐choking practice and even enjoying it.
Module 8: Physical, Emotional, and Mental Surrender Watch The Module 8 video: Brain Orgasm (17 minutes) __ Check when completed
Listen to the Module 8 audio: Surrender, Part 2 (43 minutes) __ Check when completed
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Home-‐fun
1. Schedule and commit to up to five (but no less than two) 30-‐minute self-‐ pleasuring sessions this week. In your self-‐pleasuring sessions, continue to apply the ME Breath, drawing the energy up to the brain. Try both different Brain Orgasm breaths: Ring the Bell (bringing the energy back down the Central Channel), and Shooting the Crown (bringing energy out the top of your head and all around you). 2. For Ring the Bell, hold the breath for 6-‐10 seconds. Touch the tongue to the roof of your mouth and exhale. Optional: Make the Key Sound on every other exhale. 3. For Shooting the Crown, hold the breath for a few seconds, touch the tongue to the roof of your mouth and exhale in an “energy shower.” Optional: Make the Key Sound on every other exhale. 4. Consider where you might have blocks in your energy stream and design a strategy for working with them. 5. Write about a time when you experienced surrendering to a power greater than you. Recall the details of what brought that time about. Find a practice that helps you move closer to that place of surrender
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 9
__ I’ve completed all of my home-‐fun assignments.
__ I’m comfortable breathing all the way from my root to my brain and I’m experiencing good, pleasurable results. (If Brain Orgasms are not comfortable for you, return to the last module that worked well for you and stay at that level.) __ I’m actively engaged in softening the blocks I can sense in my body using the practices that work best for me. __ I’ve explored my resistances to surrendering and am getting more comfortable with the idea of “letting go” to a power greater than myself.
Module 9: Exploring the Backyard Watch The Module 9 videos: Butt Basics, and Bed Butt and Beyond (14 minutes total) __ Check when completed
Listen to the Module 9 audio: Shame and Surrender (29 minutes)
__ Check when completed
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Home-‐fun
1. Do your favorite ME Breath practice and include an external prostate massage. That is, while you’re self-‐pleasuring, touch yourself on the perineum, pressing just above the anus.
2. If that feels good — and you’re willing to go further —use a lubed or oiled finger to play with your anus. 3. If that feels good, explore putting a finger inside of your anus a knuckle or two. Go VERY slowly and use plenty of lube. Remember to relax and breathe as you explore. 4. If that feels good, use a toy to reach your prostate (most guys will have trouble comfortably reaching it with their own fingers), and rub your prostate with the toy while you pleasure yourself. Notice how the prostatic stimulation changes the sexual experience for you. Do you get harder? Softer? Ejaculate more quickly? (Most guys will.) If you haven’t experienced an ejaculatory orgasm with prostatic stimulation, go ahead and have one or two of them. And then continue to explore how to use this new energy source to increase your multi-‐orgasmic pleasure. 5. If you have a willing partner, set a time to give backyard healing sessions to each other.
How you know you’re ready to move on to Module 10
Backyard stimulation and how it relates to the practices you’ve already learned is something you can spend years exploring. Enjoy! And feel free to move on to Module 10 — the final module — at any time.
Module 10: Integrating This Program Watch The Module 10 video: Chi Generating Breath (7 minutes)
__Check when completed
Listen to the Module 10 audio: Real World Sex Energy Mastery (46 minutes)
__ Check when completed
Home-‐fun
1. Spend 5 minutes per day doing the Chi Generating Breath. How is it for you to move energy DOWN the body instead of up? 2. Customize your Multi Orgasmic Lover experience. How can you mix-‐and-‐ match what you’ve learned to create a path to pleasure that’s unique to you? Now’s the time for you to create your own home-‐fun practices.
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Where to go from here __ View the “Energy Cock” Bonus Video. __ If you haven’t already joined the Sexual Mastery Inner Circle for mentoring from myself and other experienced students, you can do so by sending an email to
[email protected]. __ Return to any previous modules that you want to review. __ Create your own custom practice schedule to continue training on your own. __ Enlist the help of a partner to support you in moving energy in your body.
Closing Words
If you’ve completed all the modules and you’re still not where you want to be yet, don’t worry. Sometimes all of this material takes a little time to integrate. Lots of my students have come to the end of the training and it took them a little longer before — in their words — “All of my training just came together!” You’re doing something extraordinary here, so just keep going with what I’ve taught you so far and soon enough you’ll cross over. The Sexual Mastery Inner Circle is a great place to get support on your journey, so I hope to see you there. And please share with me your success stories as well. I’m right here on this journey with you! All my best, Jim Owner’s Manual for Multi Orgasmic Lover
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THE NO FAIL WORKOUT SYSTEM
Complete Physique Transformation Program
- Disclaimer -
Before beginning any new exercise, nutrition or dietary supplement program you should consult a physician first. The information presented herein is not meant to treat or prevent any disease or to provide the reader with medical advice. If you are looking for specific medical advice then you should obtain this information from a licensed health-care practitioner. This publication is intended for informational use only. Sean Nalewanyj and www.BodyTransformationTruth.com will not assume any liability or be held responsible for any form of injury, personal loss or illness caused by the utilization of this information. The individual results obtained from the use of this program will vary from person to person and we make no guarantee as to the degree of results that you will personally achieve.
Introduction
The No-Fail Workout System is an intelligently structured, step-by-step training plan designed to take you to your ultimate physique goals in the most effective and efficient way possible. By now you should have read through the complete Top-Level Weight Training and Efficient Fat Burning Cardio chapters of the main Muscle Building & Fat Loss Decoded E-Course and should have a solid grasp of the proper principles behind an effective weight training and cardio workout. There’s much more to structuring a proper training routine than merely following set in stone exercises, sets and reps. You should also understand why you’re doing what you’re doing and how to implement your plan in the most effective way possible. For that reason, you should make sure to read through those two chapters before beginning. The routine is broken down into two plans: Weight Training and Cardio. As you should already know by now, your weight training approach should be structured in exactly the same way whether your goal is to build muscle or lose fat. (If you’re unclear as to why this is the case, make sure to read through the Top-Level Weight Training and Efficient Fat Burning Cardio chapters for a complete explanation) For that reason, the same weight training plan should be used regardless of whether you’re aiming to add size and strength or strip off body fat.
The only aspect of your training plan that will differ slightly based on your goals is your cardio approach, and I’ll give you some guidelines for that in the cardio section at the end. Here’s how to get started… First, make sure to read through the Workout Guidelines. This section will give an overview of exactly how each individual workout should be performed. Again, this information is all broken down in great detail in the main e-course. Next, make your way through the Weight Training Plan. The weight training plan outlines which days you should train on, the exact exercises, sets and reps for each workout, along with a list of exercise substitutions you can use if necessary. Finally, read through the Cardio section. Depending on your individual body type and goals, a specific cardio protocol will be outlined for you that can be used alongside your weight training routine. That's all there is to it. Let’s get started...
COMPLETE NO-FAIL WEIGHT TRAINING WORKOUT PLAN
No-Fail Workout Guidelines
Before you get started, make sure to read over these important workout guidelines first... 1) For a complete explanation of the principles behind a proper weight training workout, and to learn exactly why the workouts are structured the way they are, make sure to read through the Top-Level Weight Training chapter of the main e-course. 2) Before you begin any of the assigned workouts, you must have a proper understanding of how each exercise is performed. Consult the Video Exercise Database for this. 3) Aim to perform each set 1-2 reps short of muscular failure. This means that you should continue your set until the point where, if you were to give an all-out 100% effort, you would only be able to complete 1-2 more reps using proper form. You’ll get a better handle on this after a few weeks of training if you’re a complete beginner. 4) Don’t bother with any so-called “advanced techniques”, such as supersets, drop sets, forced reps, “burn out sets” or anything else. Every set in the No-Fail Workout should be executed as a standard straight set where you simply train 1-2 reps short of failure and then stop. 5) Always write down your workouts in detail by recording the exact weight lifted and reps executed for every exercise throughout the session. The next time you enter the gym to perform that same workout, you should be placing 100% of your focus on improving upon your previous performance by adding slightly more weight, performing more reps, or both.
6) Every workout should begin with a proper warm-up consisting of 5 minutes of very light cardio followed by 3 weight acclimation sets for your first major compound exercise of the workout. You'll perform 50% x 10 reps, 75% x 3 reps and 100% x 1 rep, where the percentage given is in relation to the amount of weight you'll use on your first working set. 7) After you have completed a set, you should only perform your next set when you feel that you are 100% recovered and can perform that set with maximum strength and focus. There is no concrete rest interval in between sets, as it will vary from exercise to exercise. 8) On the positive portion of the repetition, move the weight as fast as you can while still maintaining complete control. On the negative portion of the repetition, lower the weight in 3-4 seconds. 9) Breathe in as you lower the weight and breathe out as you lift it. 10) Purchase a set of lifting straps and use them for all back exercises. 11) Make sure to place equal focus and intensity on all muscle groups. You should not be favoring certain muscles over others, but instead should focus on developing your physique as equally as possible. 12) Muscle pump, muscle burn and muscle soreness are not indicators of a successful workout. The success of your workout should only be gauged by how well you execute the principle of intensity (training 1-2 reps short of muscular failure) and progression (adding more weight to each exercise over time). 13) Injury prevention should always be treated as a primary concern. Keep your joints and connective tissues healthy by properly warming up, lifting within your own limits, monitoring your intensity levels, using proper form and avoiding overtraining yourself. 14) After 8-10 continuous weeks of training, take 1 full week off from the gym. This will allow your body and joints to fully recuperate and will prevent overtraining. You may still perform cardio on your week off.
Weekly Workout Layout
The No-Fail Workout System utilizes what is known as a “Legs/Push/Pull” structure, which involves 3 individual workouts that you’ll be cycling through. For Workout A, you’ll be training your legs: quads, hamstrings and calves. For Workout B, you’ll be training all of your upper body pushing muscles: your chest, shoulders (front and side heads) and triceps. For Workout C, you’ll be training all of your upper body pulling muscles: your back, shoulders (rear head) and biceps. Abs will be trained at the end of each workout. This is an extremely effective training structure because it hits the muscles in groups that work together synergistically to perform their specific movement patterns. For example, all compound chest exercises also stimulate the shoulders (front head) and triceps, all compound shoulder exercises also stimulate the triceps, and all compound back exercises also stimulate the biceps and shoulders (rear head). This type of structure allows for maximum recovery in between workouts and prevents muscular overlap since each system is being trained in isolation. The way to implement this plan is simple: perform Workout A, then B, then C, and then repeat the cycle.
Since recovery ability will vary from person to person, there isn’t an exact set-in-stone number of days per week that every single individual must train on. Instead, your central aim should be to train with this cycle as often as possible while still making continued strength gains from workout to workout. For most people, this will mean a total of 4-5 workouts per week. If you’d prefer to train less often than this (based on your schedule or general preference) and are willing to progress at a slightly slower rate, or if you have lower than average recovery ability and need more time in between sessions, 3 workouts per week is also acceptable. If you choose to train 4 days per week, you can use a weekly layout of 2 on, 1 off, 2 on, 2 off, or you can just train every other day. For example, Monday/Tuesday/Thursday/Friday, or Monday/Wednesday/Friday/Sunday. If you choose to train 5 days per week, any 5 days of the week is ultimately fine. Just choose the layout that fits best with your schedule. If you choose to train 3 days per week, just go with 3 non-consecutive days, like Monday/Wednesday/Friday or Tuesday/Thursday/Saturday. Okay, with the central workout guidelines and weekly layout established, let’s now dive into each individual workout…
Workout A – Quads, Hamstrings, Calves
Exercise
# Of Sets
Rep Range
Barbell Squat
3-4
5-7
Leg Press (45 Degree or Horizontal)
3
8 - 10
Dumbbell Romanian Deadlift
3-4
8 - 10
Lying Leg Curl
3
5-7
Standing Machine Calf Raise
3-4
5-7
Leg Press Calf Raise
3
5-7
Kneeling Rope Crunch
2
8 - 10
Reverse Crunch
2
8 - 10
Quads
Hamstrings
Calves
Abs
Exercise Substitution List Whenever possible, I would recommend sticking to the workout plan as it is outlined above. That said, if you don't have access to certain pieces of equipment or have certain limitations (perhaps due to injuries), here are some potential exercise substitutions you can use instead... Barbell Squat & Leg Press Front Squat Hack Squat Dumbbell Squat Dumbbell Step-Up Barbell Step-Up Barbell Lunge Dumbbell Lunge
Dumbbell Romanian Deadlift Barbell Romanian Deadlift Good Morning Glute-Ham Raise
Lying Leg Curl Seated Leg Curl Standing Leg Curl Glute-Ham Raise
Standing Machine Calf Raise & Leg Press Calf Raise Standing One-Legged Dumbbell Calf Raise Smith Machine Calf Raise Hack Squat Calf Raise
Kneeling Rope Crunch Incline Crunch Weighted Floor Crunch
Reverse Crunch Lying Leg Raise Hanging Leg Raise Swiss Ball Leg Raise Seated Leg Tuck
Workout B – Chest, Shoulders (Front/Side), Triceps
Exercise
# Of Sets
Rep Range
Flat Dumbbell Press
3-4
5-7
Incline Dumbbell Press
3-4
5-7
Cable Crossover
3
8 - 10
Seated Overhead Dumbbell Press
3-4
5-7
Standing Cable Side Lateral
3
8 - 10
Tricep Pressdown
3
5-7
One-Arm Overhead DB Extension
3
8 - 10
Straight Plank
2
1-2 Minute Hold
Side Plank
2
1-2 Minute Hold
Chest
Shoulders
Triceps
Abs
Exercise Substitutions Flat Dumbbell Press & Incline Dumbbell Press Flat Barbell Press Incline Barbell Press Decline Barbell Press Decline Dumbbell Press Wide-Grip Dips Machine Bench Press Flat Smith Machine Press Incline Smith Machine Press Decline Smith Machine Press
Cable Crossovers Flat Dumbbell Flye Incline Dumbbell Flye Decline Dumbbell Flye Machine Flye Pec Deck
Seated Overhead Dumbbell Press Standing Military Press Seated Military Press Standing Overhead Dumbbell Press Overhead Smith Machine Press Overhead Machine Press
Standing Dumbbell Side Laterals Standing Cable Side Laterals Seated Dumbbell Side Laterals
Tricep Pressdown One-Arm Reverse Pressdown Decline Dumbbell Skull Crushers Flat Dumbbell Skull Crushers EZ-Bar Skull Crushers Close-Grip Bench Press Narrow-Grip Dips
One-Arm Overhead Dumbbell Extension Overhead EZ-Bar Extension Overhead Cable Extension Overhead Rope Extension
Straight Plank Swiss Ball Plank
Workout C – Back, Shoulders (Rear), Biceps
Exercise
# Of Sets
Rep Range
Barbell Deadlift
3-4
5-7
Overhand Chin Up
3-4
5-7
One-Arm Dumbbell Row
3-4
5-7
Face Pull
3
8 - 10
3
8 - 10
Barbell Curl
3
5-7
Alternating Dumbbell Curl
3
5-7
Cable Wood Chopper
2
8 - 10
Pallof Press
2
8 - 10
Back
Shoulders (Rear Head) Rear Lateral Cable Raise Biceps
Abs
Exercise Substitutions Deadlifts Bent Over Barbell Row Bent Over Dumbbell Row Seated Cable Row T-Bar Row
Overhand Chin-Up Overhand Lat Pulldown V-Bar Pulldown Underhand Lat Pulldown Underhand Chin Ups
One Arm Dumbbell Row Bent Over Barbell Row Bent Over Dumbbell Row Seated Cable Row T-Bar Row
Face Pull Dumbbell Shrug Barbell Shrug Smith Machine Shrug
Rear Lateral Cable Raise Rear Lateral Dumbbell Raise
Barbell Curl Cable Curl
Standing Alternating Dumbbell Curl Seated Alternating Dumbbell Curl Seated Incline Dumbbell Curl
Cable Wood Chopper Plate Twist
Pallof Press Flat Russian Twist
NO-FAIL CARDIO GUIDELINES
The No-Fail Workout Routine: Cardio
Additional cardio exercise will be included in your program for one of two major reasons: 1) Your primary goal is to build muscle size, but you want to minimize the amount of body fat you gain. 2) Your primary goal is to lose body fat, and you're using cardio as a means of stimulating fat loss. There are 3 specific cardio approaches outlined below that will be used alongside your weight training routine. Choose the program that most closely suits your individual situation. Keep in mind though that optimal cardio protocols can vary quite a bit from person to person depending on a variety of factors, so treat these cardio plans as starting guidelines and adjust as you go along. Before you get started, make sure to read through these important No-Fail Cardio Guidelines...
No-Fail Cardio Guidelines 1) For your H.I.I.T sessions, stick to cardio exercises that minimize the risk of injury and that do not require very much skill to perform. This way you won't have to worry about balancing yourself on the machine and can place 100% of your focus on generating a high level of intensity. 2) The most highly recommend machines for H.I.I.T cardio include the upright stationary bike, recumbent bike, treadmill and stairclimber. For advanced trainees, outdoor sprinting is also a great option. 3) "H.I.I.T Cardio" stands for "High Intensity Interval Training". This type of cardio only lasts 10-20 minutes in duration and uses alternating bouts of low intensity work followed by high intensity work. Although very challenging, this type of cardio provides the most powerful fat burning and muscle sparing stimulus possible. 4) Proper H.I.I.T Cardio is covered in detail in the Efficient Fat Burning Cardio chapter of the main e-course, and as a minimum you'll need to read the "Cardio Intervals" section before getting started. 5) "Moderate Aerobic Cardio" refers to steady pace sessions performed at a moderate intensity for 40-60 minutes. If you ranked your intensity level from 0 (no work at all) to 10 (100% effort), these types of sessions should fall into a difficulty level of about 5-6. 6) Moderate Aerobic Cardio doesn't always have to fall into a "traditional" gym setting. Many of you have other activates you enjoy outside of the gym that are still intense and challenging to perform. This might include things like sports, cycling, hiking or martial arts. These activities can be counted as moderate aerobic cardio as long as they allow you to generate a sufficient level of intensity. 7) Aim to space your cardio sessions at least 8 hours away from your weight training workouts to maximize recovery and spare lean muscle tissue. If your schedule does not permit this, perform your cardio immediately after your weight training workout. 8) Do not worry about the calorie readings on the machine or about reaching a specified “target heart rate”. Both of these factors are largely irrelevant. Simply focus on putting forth a hard, focused effort during each session and strive for improvement each time.
9) Always focus on making steady progression by increasing the workload for every successive cardio session that you perform. You can accomplish this in the following ways: * Increase the resistance on the machine. * Increase the distance that you travel at a given resistance. * Decrease the resting time in between intervals. * Decrease the work period of an interval and raise the intensity as a result. * Increase the work period of an interval at the same intensity. * Perform a greater number of total intervals. 10) To get started, choose one of the 3 cardio layouts listed below. Keep in mind that these programs are not set in stone and can be modified and adjusted as you go along depending on your results...
Cardio Program #1 Your primary goal is to build muscle, and you do not gain body fat easily. In this situation, cardio will not play a significant role in your program. As a starting point, go with 1 H.I.I.T session and 1 Moderate Aerobic session per week. This should be sufficient to keep your body in a continual muscle building state while warding off unwanted fat gains. If you're on the extreme end of the scale with a highly ectomorphic body type and never seem to gain an ounce of fat no matter what you do, your weight training sessions alone will likely be enough. In that case, you can eliminate any and all additional cardio from your program unless it’s for a specific activity you enjoy or for basic health reasons. _______________________________________________________________________
Cardio Program #2 Your primary goal is to build muscle, but you tend to gain excess body fat if you aren't careful. In this situation, cardio will play a slightly more important role in your overall program. As a starting point, perform 2 H.I.I.T sessions per week along with a Moderate Aerobic session once per week. _______________________________________________________________________
Cardio Program #3 Your primary goal is to lose body fat while maintaining lean muscle mass. To maximize fat loss while sparing muscle, perform 2 H.I.I.T sessions per week along with 2 moderate intensity 40-60 minute aerobic sessions. Remember that this is just a starting point schedule and can be modified as you go along.
If you aren't losing body fat at a significant rate, you can gradually increase your cardio frequency as necessary. (Though you can alternatively keep your cardio approach the same and simply decrease your calorie intake slightly) Or, if you are find yourself losing lean body mass too quickly or are feeling excessively drained throughout the week, you can optionally scale back.
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Flirting Secrets Your High-School Self Wishes He Knew
Flirting secrets I’ve told this story before but you may not have heard it. It’s as true as my heart and been a PIVOTAL, prime-mover in my journey. When I first started going out.. To parties, clubs, bars or even just normal hangouts with groups of people.. I fucking sucked at talking with girls. I could talk a *decent* (at best) game with the dudes but put a girl in front of me - I don’t care if she was fat, ugly or (dear god) BOTH - at it I fucking sucked. I had no idea how to LEAD a conversation. Truthfully, I didn’t even know you could do that, or that the other person could possibly *want* you to do that. Imagine how excited I was when I found out girls actually WANT you to take the conversation where you want so long as you do it unapologetically and nonchalantly. I had no idea how to create a connection with someone. Imagine how stoked I was when I learned there were specific tools, techniques, fuck, even formulas, to do that. And I had NO IDEA how to flirt with girls. I’d look at guys I knew talking with girls and these girls would be dying laughing, giggling, smiling like those moments with those guys were the greatest times of their life.
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Flirting Secrets Your High-School Self Wishes He Knew
I still remember, there were two kids named Zack and Evan who were amazing at it, from a really young age. We grew up together, and every conversation I saw them have with a girl was FUN, EXCITING, CHALLENGING, PLAYFUL and ATTRACTIVE. They clearly had it, and I clearly WANTED IT. So I went to work on my bantering/flirting skills, religiously. For almost 5 years now. And I can proudly say to you today - I’m pretty fucking awesome at it now. I actually consider myself the best at it in the world, and other dating coaches/gurus have said the same. It’s ok :-) Every girl I talk to now, we have that fun, playful, teasing, challenging vibe. I walk away feeling awesome in my ability to generate that shit, and she leaves like, ‘Damn… that guy was different, fun, exciting, unpredictable…I want some more of that.” Want to know how do that too? Then let’s rap, right now. What you’ll find below is a massive list of most of my favorite flirting techniques. These techniques when used correctly will create that playful, challenging, unpredictable vibe all women find so attractive, exciting and intriguing.
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If you’ve never used anything like these below, you’ll quickly find that a large part of how they go depend on your delivery. Like any good comedian, facial expressions/timing/tone play a major role in how they go. Play around with different styles until you find the one that works best for you. And dear god, don’t try and remember or use all of these at the same time. Pick one that you like, and set a positively powerful intention to use it in every interaction for a week. Your brain will get it down right, internalize and then you’re freed up to add another one into the repertoire. Let’s begin.
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1. Past adventure projections What they are: Past adventure projections are the same thing as FAP’s but instead of talking about something in the future, you make up a memory between the two of you, something that happened between you two in the past. Why they work: Because they’re called Past Adventure Projections. That just sounds awesome. Also, not as cool as the name but important nonetheless, an imagined past memory can cut even deeper into the emotional circuitry than a future one. Very powerful. How to use them: When someone comes up to the two of you and both of you do not know the person (so it’s either a friend of yours, a friend of hers, or someone neither of you know), introduce her as your wife or girlfriend. When you’re trying to influence a girl to do something, say, “How long have we known each other now…six years, ever since that first day at kickboxing class? We go way back, you can trust me on this etc etc.” Tell her you’re not sure you can trust her because of what happened all those years ago between you two at summer camp. Make up the funny story of how she took advantage of you behind the bushes and gave you your first kiss but also gave you cooties so since then, yes, you’ve been attracted to her but the cootie thing has left you skeptical. Example: “How long have we known each other now? 10 years? I remember our first night here together, you were so shy and awkward back then. I remember the waiter came over and you asked if they had a kid’s menu. That’s when I realized, you know, she may or may not be the one for me, but at least she’s different..” Note that none of this ever happened and you can (and should) say stuff like this to girl you’ve been talking to for 5 minutes.
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Key points: Funny memories involving you and her romantically are usually best. Dinners by candlelight, first kisses at summer camp, long walks on the beach mixed with deep conversation…things like that. Before we get to the techniques, theres one thing you gotta understand first. And you need to comprehend this DEEPLY, as if your life depended on it. Not cuz your life does depend on it BUT YOUR SEX LIFE DOES. You’ve heard/read about frame control. That’s good. Frame control is cool as shit. You know women love a guy with a big-ass, powerful, impenetrable frame. But the truth is that they almost don’t care WHAT the frame is…they’re simply attracted to the strength of it, the fact they you won’t change it or settle or sacrifice it for her or anyone else. She feels like she can trust you when she can feel the strength of your frame. And you are the most important person in your life so start acting like it. If I tell a girl that I’m going to fuck her silly later tonight, and she says we can’t do that tonight, I calmly reply, “You just earned yourself an ass-spanking too little girl.” The strength of your frame = everything Now, let’s jump into the fun stuff.
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Techniques:
2. Brain Scarmblers What they are: Statements that make no sense in a playful, flirty way, are almost always the exact opposite of what’s actually happening and make her go, “Wait…what!”. Why they work: They’re fucking fun as shit bro. Consider the idea of emotional transfer. They also exhibit supreme nonneediness, bravado and simply that you just don’t give a fuck about impressing anyone. All highly attractive. How to use them: There are two main types: “I” statements, and “You” statements. Some “I statements” that I use include.. “Hi, I’m Jason. I’m shy.”
“I’m really sad. Can you help me?” “I like how you don’t laugh at anything I say..” “I’m really innocent, I swear...” You’re body language says one thing, your words say the opposite, all while you playfully smirk, James Bond style. Some “You statements” include.. “You’re so funny, you keep making me laugh. Stop it.”
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You’re far too tall for me. You’re far too short for me. Key points: These are said with a smirk, not a laugh, and that strong, piercing, relaxed eye contact. Only a chump laughs at his own jokes.
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3. Teasing questions loaded with positive implications What they are: You playfully ask specific questions that imply positive things about you or you and her together. Why they work: They’re clever, funny and just a little too overconfident on your part, which is of course WHAT SHE WANTS and the sweet spot for attraction. How to use them: At any point you feel like it in the conversations, ask her any questions that imply anything awesome about you, or you and her. Here are some I ask: “So how long have you been attracted to me now..” “So I’m curious, just what is it that you find so intriguing about me, besides my ability to be humble of course..” “How sexy do I look right now..” Then some more about you and her.. “It’s fitting that the two coolest people in here should be talking with each other, eh..” “Yo, I usually can’t say stuff like this to most people but I feel like you can actually relate: How awesome is it to be this awesome all the time..” “Can you even imagine how jealous is everyone gonna be when we get married..” Make Women Want You... NOW!
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Key points: Ask these with a big smirk on your face and don’t actually expect her to answer. You’re not saying it for her response, you’re saying it because it’s hilarious and makes you feel good.
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4. Future Adventure Projections What they are: Future adventure projections are just like they sound. You make up future adventures you and her are going to go on together in the future and have fun taking about them/planning them. Why they work: The emotional brain can’t decipher between what is real and what is imagined. They both feel the same to her in the moment so if you tell her you’re going to take her to a sunny beach and play in the sparkling blue water together, the emotions she’s feels are extremely similar to what she feels when you and her actually go do that. Think about how powerful and versatile this knowledge is (talking about travels, adventures, sex, etc). How to use them: When either of you are talking about something you want to do in the future, make it a future adventure projection. Tell her she’s awesome so you’re going to take her with you on your rise to the top of the world. Talk about what you two are going to do when you’re there. Find out something she likes to do, or talk about something you like to do, and then make a FAP with the two of you doing that thing. Example: “What’s the best adventure you’ve been on lately?” “You know what, I’m totally going to take you swimming with me and the dolphins next time I go. The whole family is going to dig you but Percy’s gonna like you best, he has a thing for brunettes who are just a little more interesting than they should be. We’ll swim and play with them, then you’re going to take me on that hike but while we’re out there, we’re going to run into a fierce mountain lion but since I speak mountain lion, I’ll talk to him, he’ll relax and chill with us for a little bit then we’ll go home cuz that was a really eventful day.” That’s how you make a FAP. Notice the leading question to start it, the combining of our two Make Women Want You... NOW!
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adventures together, my status throughout the story and of course, the general ridiculousness/ nonsense I’m spitting throughout it. It’s hilarious and totally does not need to make sense. Indifferent, playful illogicality = attraction. Key points: Keeping the story light, fun, exciting. The status dynamics in your FAP’s should be you in the leader/power position and her following with you. Think Teacher/Student, Coach/Player, Guide/Follower, Doctor/Nurse, Boss/Secretary etc. And throw in a couple challenges in there for her during it. You already make her work for you in the present - and it will be no different in the future.
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5. False Disqualifiers What they are: False disqualifies are fake reasons why you and her can’t be together. Why they work: Humans want what they can’t have. Even when she knows you’re just teasing her when you say one of these, her emotional circuitry does not, and so the same feelings of desire are triggered as if the barrier was real. How to use them: There are two main ways to use false disqualifiers. The first are little one-liners, which you toss in there every so often to spike that sexual tension. The others are actual frames you set as themes early on in the relating, and then continue to play around with those for as long as you want (the whole relationship, like... for years, if you want). Examples: Here’s a quick list of false disqualifiers that I’m about to brain dump right now: God, I can’t even talk to you anymore. You know, it’s really too bad you’re not my type, we could have had some fun. It’s really too bad we’re not at all attracted to each other. You know why me and you would never get along? I’m far too adventurous for you, I’m not sure you could keep up. It would never work between us, I can totally tell, you’re the jealous type. Wait, how tall are you? Oh, you’re way too tall for me. I think I’m going through a midget phase right now.
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You’re way more interesting than I thought you’d be. It’s really too bad me and blondes don’t get along, we always end up fighting to see who’s going to end up on top. And here are some frames you can set and play with. Again, once you have one of these going, you can playfully come back to it whenever you want. The “I’m suspicious of you/Not sure if I can trust you” frame.. Noticing, explaining and labeling her “lady game” -Call her out for doing certain things, trying to get you to like her, and applaud her for her efforts (ex: “Your lady game ain’t half bad woman. You know, talking to other guys in my presence to get me to notice and casually looking over every once in a while, well-played, well-played. The “Is that your pick-up line?” frame -Ask her this question in response to any benign or legitimate thing she does, then tell her, “LISTEN. You don’t need pick up lines…you just gotta be yourself, I’m sure some nice boy will come along and like you for you girl.” The “We need to find you a nice boy” frame -Lead her around the venue playfully trying to find her a nice boy for her because you too obviously would be so incompatible The “Most girls only like me for my body/I feel like a piece of meat” frame -Say, “You know what’s so annoying? I feel like no one I talk to even sees the real me, like every girl just likes me for my body and not my brain…it’s so hard to be taken seriously when they keep checking out your body. I feel like a piece of meat.” -This is hilarious
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The “You’re totally a bad girl” frame -Tell her she keeps making these quick little expressions that are clear evidence of her being a bad girl pretending to be a good girl. Keep it playful, laugh and tease about it, tell her it would never work between you two cuz you recently swore off bad girls, call her a troublemaker etc. -What’s cool about this is, later on, when you’re sleeping with her, she’ll feel WAY more comfortable letting the “bad girl” in her out Key points: That playful/challenging vibe mixed with nonneediness/indifference. Always.
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6. Make ridiculous requests What they are: Just like they sound, you ask for something absurd and you do it only half-jokingly like there’s a big part of you that thinks you deserve what you’re asking for. Why they work: It’s a common law of life: You’ll almost always end up with exactly what you think you deserve. Expect big things, you get big things. Do the opposite, and you’ll limit the fuck out of yourself. So when you make giant, absurd requests like these, sure, she knows you’re joking, but you wouldn’t make a joke like that unless a part of you believed that you deserved it, and subconsciously, she feels that. Since you see yourself so highly and deservingly, she’ll begin to look at and treat you that way. How to use them: Ask her things like.. “Hey I’m hungry. Can you go to the grocery store for me and make me a sandwich?” “Yo there’s a long line for the men’s bathroom. Can you go over there with me and tell all the guys waiting you’ll give all of them blow jobs if I can cut..” “After we get married and divorced and then married again, do you promise you’ll still love me?” And when she asks you for something, sometimes say something like, “Sure, all I ask in return is , that’s cool with you, right..” The “insert something ridiculous here” can be a 20-minute massage from her that lasts an hour or her coming over to your house to do the dishes/laundry or if she’s your girlfriend/wife, 12 blowjobs. Lol. You know what I be sayin. Make Women Want You... NOW!
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7. Blaming her for making you like her What they are: Lines and themes you can play up as “her fault” for making you feel that way. Why they work: It’s funny, first of all. Different, exciting and a very advanced flirting skill. Also, a passive, underlying frame is set when you imply she’s doing something and she doesn’t seriously disagree with it. So if I tell her, “Stop being so cool and making me like you, this is so not cool,” and she laughs (aka doesn’t seriously disagree), the frame is *still* set that she’s MAKING you like her, as in she’s doing things to make you like her which she would only do if she liked you first, which is what her subconscious will read. Crazy but true. See more from Robert Cialdini on the Commitment/Consistent Principle for more. How to use them: At any high point, where she made you laugh, or gave you a seductive glance or really did anything unique, playfully be upset with her for making her like you. Some lines.. “Stop looking at me like that. It’s way too seductive for a public setting..” “Why are you doing this to me? I’m not trying to like anyone right now…I hate you so much, stop it Make Women Want You... NOW!
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“You’re a dancer? You know I have a weakness for women skilled in movement, this is so not fair, making me interested in you like that.” Key Points: Just blame her for everything, playfully. I had a customer tell me recently he started using this in all ways. He’d find out a girl was an accountant and blame the economy on her. Or she was a bartender, and he’d blame her for the alarming number of alcoholics in this country. Or she was a nurse, and he’d blame her for starting this cold that’s currently going around town. I loved the creativity and cleverness. If you have some success with variations on this too, holler at me and let me know.
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8. Role-plays What they are: Made-up roles between the two of you that set you guys in character. Why they work: Role-playing isn’t just for kids on the playground, or swingers. Remember how much fun it was to play cops and robbers, or cowboys and indians when you were a kid.. There’s somethings fun and freeing about being able to step into someone else’s shoes for a little bit and just PLAY. And when you do it with a girl you just met, it’s even more fun for the both of you (and fun is the ultimate attraction switch). Also, setting up a role play with someone you just met fast-forwards the connection and rapport the two of you feel for each other. No longer are you just two kids in a bar, now you’re boyfriend-girlfriend. How to use them: There are 3 main role-plays that you’ll ever need to know.. Just use these ones and you’re money. The “Boyfriend/Girlfriend” role-play - After she says something you like or that makes you laugh, wrap your arm around her, bring her in, say, “You’re just too much fun, you’re my new girlfriend for the next 10 minutes.” And then go play boyfriend/girlfriend. Walk around the place, show her off, let her show you off, talk about how jealous everyone is of how awesome of a couple you guys make, get a pen and draw love tattoos on each others arms, pretend to fight, break up and then get back together. Make Women Want You... NOW!
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The options and good emotions are endless. The “Partners in crime” role-play - Anytime there’s something that you guys can’t figure out, do a FAP and say you guys are going to be detectives together and you’re going to solve the case together. You can be Sherlock Holmes, she’ll be your Watson (remember the status dynamics). Or if there’s anything else that comes up where you two can pretend to be patterns-in-crime in it, do it. The bond you create will be strong, the attraction stronger. The “Teacher/Student” Role-play - Anytime something comes up where she wants to know about something or know how to do something and you’re going to show her, immediately put out the teacher/student role-play. Say, “OK, I’m going to show you this because you’re such a good listener, but make sure you pay close attention…it will be on the final exam at the end of the semester. Are you ready..”. She’ll laugh and instantly pick up on the new role-play and excitedly play along. Anytime you throw out a pretend role-play or game, the girl will basically always get all excited and want to play. Games, quizzes and role-plays are like crack for them. So long as you qualify and challenge and create memories while you guys play, she’s yours. For good :-)
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