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Social services to families in the process of divorce Social services to families in the process of divorce Radoslav Micheľ Abstract Social services to families in the process of divorce is a very important part of the effective and full assistance to families in difficult social situations and crisis. The family in the process of divorce and multidisciplin necessary professional assistance in resolving various conflict situations between spouses. Keywords Counseling. Family. Divorce. Introduction Inappropriate family environment, is characterized by parent families, families in crisis, reflected in the relationship between spouses. This crisis has a very negative impact also on children and the overall communication among family members. For this reason it is necessary to emphasize the important and unique role of the social worker, respectively. social services to families in the process of divorce. Family in the divorce process The family is the first social environment in which the child is born. ,,It is a connecting bridge "between the individual and society. (Hroncová, Hudecová, Matulayová, 2001). According Matejček and Dytrycha (2002) divorce is considered certain basic social remedial measure to avoid a mismatch between the spouses. Family breakdown is one of the most difficult periods, not only for direct participants divorce, t. j. for parents and children, but often also for the whole extended family. Divorce is a time filled with stress and frustration of important human needs.
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From a theoretical point of view it is right to talk about the three stages of divorce: 1. marriage (family) mismatch - arises from the non-essential contradictions, which reflects the reduced ability of partners to find a suitable compromise. The marital mismatch gradually passes in matrimonial (family) disruption; 2. marriage (family) disruption - it is already seriously affected by one of their essential family functions (emotional, economic, educational); 3. distribution - is the formal legal termination of the marital relationship of two individuals, the last recourse in the process of marriage breakdown. (Matějček, Dytrych, 2002). In our opinion, it is very important to distinguish the stage of divorce because of better understanding of the divorce process in families. Principles of social services to families in the process of divorce Divorce is not a one-time act, but a process involving predrozvodové, and after divorce period. True Parents are in one of the stages of the process, form a large clientele department of child protection and social guardianship office of labor, social affairs and family. The target group of social work become particularly following circumstances: sense of crisis in married life, more or less are determined to deal with her divorce and await the legal information, social advice on options to address future childcare. The district court shall notify the body of child protection and social guardianship with the proposal of one of the spouses on divorce establish the Office of Labour, Social Affairs and Family guardian ad litem for minors and asked us to investigate the social situation of the child for the purposes of a court decision. Former spouses and minor children while parents are looking for solutions to the entire spectrum of problematic situations in the time after the divorce. The third subject of family environment (schools, doctors, neighbors, relatives, anonymous notifier) notifies the body of child protection and social guardianship to violations of children's rights. From a social worker in social services it requires expertise, professionalism, competence. This means good control methods and techniques of social work and the ability to properly dispose of sensitive and apply them in direct contact with private clients to promote the objectives of the activation of the client. For a family in the process predrozvodovom, divorce and postdivorce is an important means to help social counseling. Professional social counseling provides direct assistance to people in solving their social problems, among them the area of life crisis, problems in married life and child care, in a situation of divorce. "For expert advice is characterized by use of special professional practices designed to influence the thinking and
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actions of a person who is in a difficult situation, which has been unable to solve on their own or with help from family and friends." (Matoušek et al., 2003 p. 85). ,,Few of us that got caught today goldfish would have liked something that is not related to money. Love is not happiness health priorities are lost, we know about them, but the material needs are coming increasingly under the spotlight. It may in fact also providing a chance to elect for health, love, popularity, friends, justice and many other things to pay“(Micheľ In Bugri Beňo, Andrejiová, 2013, p. 151). The negative impact of globalization is that it relieves the moral inhibitions. At a higher degree of alienation, individualism and reduce the sense of family (Hanobik In Hardy et al., 2011). ,,Family must belong to the Christian values. The future of humanity passes through the family. So that the family could fulfill its mission through moral values, it is necessary to provide effective social assistance“ (Micheľ, Hanobik In Hardy et al., 2015, p. 49). Experts agree the key sentence: "We help means helping people to help themselves" (Matoušek et al., 2003, p. 85). We think it is important to teach people catch fish ,,as they put the fish." ,,Consulting emphasizes that a person who has problems, is also the person who has the necessary resources to meet them. Advisor creates a relationship that allows the client to seek and find their own answers to problems."(Matoušek et al., 2003, p. 86). The current form of the family, the attitude of the whole society to the family as a whole, is the result of its long-term development. As the family is a group wherein the transmitted traditional cultural patterns of behavior is very much conserved unit. The current form of the family is the result of responses to broader social changes (Bujdová In Bugri Beňo, Andrejiová, 2013). Difficulty provision of social counseling affects a broad spectrum of social problems that may accumulate just within the family environment. An important feature of social intervention social worker is the interaction between advisers and family members that allow: 1. the client orientation in their situation, 2. optimizing the functioning of the family system (Pavelová, 2007). Its socio-educational action on the client's social worker implements social therapy and social services, where the "process based on a dynamic interaction between the client and the social worker. In this process, a conscious effort to shape the ideas, beliefs, attitudes, feelings and actions of clients."(Levická, 2008, p. 116).
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Staff of the social protection of children has always borne in mind that failure in a marital relationship does not mean a failure in the function of the parent. Monitors that ensure the proper care of children and conflict situations taking measures to avoid being threatened life and health of minors. Within vocational guidance and a social worker uses his knowledge and skills of psychological department. In our view, social workers engage in training to help families in the process of divorce also services other professionals, especially psychologists in terms of better and more efficient assistance to each family member. Conclusion The most essential elements that keeps the family is love. Love is the most important feeling and values that maintain a functioning system without family communication and relationship problems. Each mirror is just a picture of family or family education, as family upbringing and social space creates a character profile of the child. Bibliography BUJDOVÁ, N. 2013. Impact of economic crisis on the family and child. In BUGRI, Š. BEŇO, P. - ANDREJIOVÁ, L. Impact of economic crisis on the quality of life, health and social impacts. Monograph. Prešov: Institute of Social Sciences and Health bl. P. P. Gojdiča, 2013. p. 28-33. ISBN 978-80-89464-23-4. HANOBIK, F. 2011. Modern society and family crisis. In HARDY, M. et al. Social Pathology families. Proceedings of the international conference. 1st ed. Bratislava: VŠZaSP St. Elizabeth, 2011. ISBN 978-80-8132-000-2. p. 142-150. HRONCOVÁ, J. - HUDECOVÁ, A. - MATULAYOVÁ, T. 2001. Social pedagogy and social work. Banská Bystrica Matej Bel University, 2001. 298 p. ISBN 978-80-80554-767. LEVICKÁ, J. 2008. On the way to the client. Trnava: Oliva, 2008. 283 p. ISBN 978-8089332-03-8. MATĚJČEK, Z. - DYTRYCH, Z. 2002. Crisis situations in the family the eyes of a child. 1st ed. Praha: Grada Publishing, 2002. 128 p. ISBN 80-247-0332-7. MATOUŠEK, O. et al. 2003. Methods of management and social work. Prague: Portal, 2003. 384 p. ISBN 80-7178-548-2.
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