A Workshop for Second-Generation Former Members Friday 3:00 p.m. April 25, 2008 to Sunday 2:00 p.m. April 27, 2008 Workshop Location: Trinity Conference Center, 79 Lower River Road, West Cornwall, CT 06796 (860-672-1000) The International Cultic Studies Association (ICSA) has run workshops for former members of high-demand, “cultic” groups for many years. In recent years increasing numbers of people born or raised in such groups (i.e., “second generation adults” - SGAs) have attended these workshops. These ex-members have special needs, which can be most effectively addressed through a workshop that focuses on them. SGAs do not have a “precult identity” to which they can return. SGAs raised in fringe subcultures have to learn the implicit rules and expectations of mainstream culture. SGAs frequently have educational and other skill deficits that interfere with adjustment to mainstream culture. Having grown up in high-control groups that are often based on irrational belief systems, SGAs tend to struggle with issues of dependency, self-esteem, and social conflict. Because many SGAs were physically or sexually abused, they often have to deal with anger, resentment, and other emotions related to trauma. This workshop will address the needs of SGAs through a series of brief didactic presentations (supplemented by written handouts) followed by discussions, to which attendees may contribute according to their comfort levels. Specifically, the workshop will address: critical thinking socialization, culture shock, and acculturation psychological development, child abuse and neglect, parenting styles, boundaries, and trust long-term psychological, educational, and emotional effects of growing up in a culture of abuse and neglect relationships with families and others This workshop has been made possible by special donations and the willingness of facilitators to volunteer large amounts of their time. Without the dedication of these people, registration fees would be much higher than what is listed below. The donations cover a substantial portion of the total cost. Therefore, the fees listed below reflect a significant discount. Because many SGAs struggle economically, additional financial assistance is available for those in need. If you would like to apply for financial assistance, please contact us. The conference center (http://www.trinitywallstreet.org/center/index.html) is located on a bend in the Housatonic River, just a half-mile from the covered bridge in the foothills of the Berkshire Mountains, on 500 forested acres. The Center is two hours from New York, an hour-and-a-half from Albany, three hours from Boston, and an hour from Hartford and Bradley International Airport (BDL). Contact us if you plan to fly (Hartford’s Bradley Airport would be the closest airport) and will need ground transportation to the conference center. FEES Fees include sleeping accommodations (Friday and Saturday) and meals (Friday dinner, Saturday breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and Sunday breakfast and lunch). Double occupancy (please tell us your roommate’s name or request that we assign a roommate): $250 per person. Single occupancy: $350 per person. REGISTRATION Please send us (see top for contact information) a note indicating your interest in attending (SGAs ONLY!) and your name, address, phone(s), and e-mail along with a check (made out

to ICSA) or Visa or MasterCard number and expiration date. Or, use the registration form on the back. Contact us if you would like to apply for financial assistance. SPACE IS LIMITED, SO PLEASE REGISTER ASAP. Use the table above to calculate the amount due. All rates are per person and include meals (Friday dinner through Sunday lunch) and Friday and Saturday accommodations. Directions and other information will be sent after you register. If you have questions, contact ICSA at (239)-514-3081 or [email protected] Double Occupancy If you have a roommate, please tell us his/her name? Do you want us to assign you a roommate?

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Group Info What is the name of the group you belonged to (for each registrant)? How long have you been out of the group? THE FACILITATORS Leona Furnari, M.S.W is a licensed clinical social worker in Boulder Colorado. She is a psychotherapist specializing in recovery from trauma, including recovery from abusive groups and relationships. Ms. Furnari is a former member of an Eastern/New Age group, and it was that experience that led to her commitment to help others recover from abusive groups. She has been a regular facilitator/presenter at ICSA's Recovery Workshops in Estes Park, CO for the last four years. She also works as a school social worker at the middle school level, and facilitates support groups for adolescents dealing with grief, family change and peer relationships. Carol Giambalvo is an ex-cult member who has been a Thought Reform Consultant since 1984 and a cofounder of reFOCUS, a national support network for former cult members. She is on ICSA’s Board of Directors, Director of ICSA’s Recovery Programs, and is responsible for its Project Outreach. Author of Exit Counseling: A Family Intervention, coeditor of The Boston Movement: Critical Perspectives on the International Churches of Christ, and co-author of “Ethical Standards for Thought Reform Consultants,” Ms. Giambalvo has written and lectured extensively on cult-related topics. ([email protected]) Lorna Goldberg, M.S.W., L. C. S. W., a psychoanalyst in private practice with children, adolescents, and adults. She has co-led a support group for ex-cult members with her husband, William, for over 25 years. She is on the Board of Directors of ICSA/ICSA and is Dean of Faculty, Institute for Psychoanalytic Studies, Teaneck, New Jersey. She has written extensively for social work and ICSA publications. ([email protected]) William Goldberg, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., a therapist in private practice, has co-led a support group for ex-cult members with his wife, Lorna, for over 25 years. He is Director of the Community Support Center and The Young Adult Center of the Rockland County (NY) Department of Mental Health. Mr. Goldberg is an Adjunct Professor in the Social Work Department of Dominican College. ([email protected]) Rosanne Henry, M.A., L.P.C., a member of ICSA's Board of Directors, is a psychotherapist practicing in Littleton, Colorado. For the last fifteen years she has been helping those harmed by cults through the original CAN and ICSA. Her private practice specializes in the

treatment of cult survivors and their families. She is a former member of Kashi Ranch. ([email protected]) Joyce Martella is the daughter of a leader of a pseudo-Christian cultic group, ISOT, in Northern California. Born and raised in this group, she left after 25 years. She has been cut off from her siblings and mother for over 15 years. She is currently working in a Batterer's Intervention Program and pursuing a doctorate in Depth Psychology. Michael Martella, a licensed family therapist, was raised in a Bible-based cult for 20 years, leaving in 1980. He is a licensed counselor and an expert in domestic violence treatment in San Diego, California. Over the last three years, he has conducted seven “Cult Survivor Workshops” for ex-cult members, and he is currently writing his doctoral dissertation on “Cult Wounds and Cult Healing.” Surviving and Moving On After a High Demand Group Experience: A workshop for Second-Generation Former Members April 25 – April 27, 2008 Agenda Friday 4:00 pm 4:30 – 5:00 pm 6:00 – 7:00 pm 7:15 – 8:15 pm Saturday 8:15 am 9:00 – 10:30

11:00 am – 12:00 pm 12:00 – 1:00 pm 1:30 – 3:00 3:30 – 5:00 pm 5:30 pm 7:00 pm Sunday 8:15 am 9:00 am – 10:30 am 11:00 am – 12:30 pm 12:30 pm – 1:30 pm 1:30 – 2:30 pm

Check-in Welcome and Introductions – Carol Giambalvo Dinner Critical Thinking - William Goldberg, Facilitator Breakfast Second Generation's Culture of Submission and Hidden Rebellion within High-Demand Groups, Michael and Joyce Martella, Facilitators Dealing with Culture Shock, Michael and Joyce Martella, Facilitators Lunch Healthy Individual Development is Fostered by Healthy Families, Leona Furnari and Rosanne Henry, Facilitators Resiliency! Leona Furnari and Rosanne Henry, Facilitators Dinner Social Breakfast and check-out The Harsh Conscience of Second Generation Former Cult Members. Lorna Goldberg with Bill Goldberg, Facilitators Relationship with Families and Others, Lorna Goldberg with Bill Goldberg, Facilitators Lunch Wrap Up and Feedback, Carol Giambalvo, Facilitator

Note: Check-out time on Sunday is by 9:00 a.m. -- there is a storage area for luggage. Meal times are precise. There is an extra charge if management has to keep the food out longer. Please be prompt to meals and back from breaks. Thanks!