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By JUDY ERICKSON
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Easter is all about resurrection life here and now — freely available for followers of Christ. More people attend church on Easter than any Sunday of the year and there are many service options, including sunrise celebrations. (See listings in The Calendar, pages 8-13.) Many churches offer Good Friday services such as Nail Your Pain to the Cross at the Salvation Army San Diego Citadel Corps. For 20 years, congregants and visitors from the community have committed prayer burdens or confessions to paper and nailed them to a large wooden cross. Knowing their paper Please turn to page 12
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Grassroots campaign seeking funds to include chapel at new hospital By JUDY ERICKSON As Palomar Health District (until March known as Palomar-Pomerado Health District) prepares to open its large new hospital in West Escondido, some employees feared the 40-50 acre campus would not include a chapel. In 2009, the health district board announced its decision to defer chapel construction along with some other nonclinical features because construction costs went up. “At the time the thinking was that some of these features could be restored in the future with donations,” said Palomar’s media relations specialist Leonel Sanchez.
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Former gang member returns in love to Posole neighborhood By RICK MONROE Frank Barron grew up in a tough part of Oceanside known as Posole neighborhood. Others call it the Eastside area, notorious for its gangs. It’s still a rough area and it’s still tormented by gangs. And Barron, who turned 60 on March 27, is still involved in gang life — only now his focus is showing teenagers and preteens God’s love and that there’s a way out. “I talk to kids in the elementary school and they say their goal in life is acceptance in a gang,” the Hispanic senior citizen shared recently over breakfast. “They live 10 minutes from the ocean, but many have never seen the beach because they’re afraid to leave their neighborhood. There’s so much more they can have with Jesus.” Barron knows the story well, because it was also his story. Growing up in a home without a father, he joined the gang in 8th grade and at 14 left home. By 16, he had dropped out of school and was packing a .38, which he found useful for protection and activities like robbing local banks. He became ad-
Frank Barron with Pastor Michael Henderson.
dicted to heroin and going nowhere in life, likely headed for the same fate as his two brothers — one was killed and the other is serving a life sentence in prison. That’s when the persistence of Encinitas barber Art Jenson came into the picture. Every time he saw Barron, he would tell him that Jesus loved him and that there was a way out of the gangs. In 1977, when Barron was 26 years old and really strung out on heroin, Jenson came to his rescue, taking him to Teen Challenge Please turn to page 14
“The hospital is an evolving project, with some floors not slated to open at first.” Chapel space has been allocated on the second floor of the 11-story, 740,000square-foot “Hospital of the Future” with 288 patient beds — and plans for 360 — plus 12 operating rooms. However, the approximate $956 million spent to open doors Aug. 19 does not cover building out the planned chapel, healing gardens, or community room. In February, Palomar Health District CEO Michael Covert informed Palomar employees that the chapel would cost an additional $500,000. Sanchez said a very dedicated group of Please turn to page 15
YFC celebrating 60 years in San Diego By STU SMITH San Diego’s Youth for Christ turns 60 years old this year, but anyone thinking the student outreach organization — also known as Campus Life — is starting to slow down or take things easy need only look toward the East County to see what youth ministry looks like in the 21C. “The on-campus club at Granite Hills
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(high school) has taken off,” noted YFC board chairman, Mike Atkinson, “and the one at Valhalla is just as active, so they have a natural rivalry going.” As it has for generations of high schoolers, YFC leaders reach out to kids by simply being interested, caring and available. “My kids know that every Tuesday I’m there,” said Granite Hills leader, JJ James, Please turn to page 3
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FOCUS ON SKYLINE FAMILY — Dr. James Dobson prays for three fathers from Skyline Church who are representing the fathers of Skyline’s three senior pastors: Orville “Pop” Butcher, John Maxwell and Dr. Jim Garlow (left). Garlow wanted dads to be prayed for during the March 25 dedication of the church’s prayer room because of their leadership roles in the family. “Our hope is that the room — called ‘Our Father’s House of Prayer’ — will inspire young dads to live godly and prayerful lives,” Garlow said. Dobson also dedicated the The Heritage Walk, which includes 300 individuals, beginning with God, Adam and Eve and Noah, going through Old and New Testament heroes, down through history. It includes 15 who are still living, all over 70, including several in attendance — James and Shirley Dobson, Tim and Beverly LaHaye, Vonette Bright and Don Wildmon.
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ill and I never set out to become specialists on marriage — let alone midlife marriage — but we had the good fortune to be mentored by Jim Conway, the man who popularized the whole midlife concept. Bill recently took the reins of www.mid-life.com. Midlife is the No. 1 time for couples to toss in the towel. Often, it is because of men and affairs. However, startling new statistics reveal the number of women having affairs has risen significantly in recent years, as has the divorce rate for those over 40. More
women are bailing out on their marriages at midlife. In a recent AARP survey of those who divorced from ages 40 to 69, 66 percent of women reported that they asked for the divorce. The ability to hang on to love is a bit easier when we realize all that is going on in a midlife marriage. In my (Pam’s) new book, 10 Secrets of Living Smart, Savvy and Strong, I list more than 100 symptoms of menopause (everything from hot flashes to having to cross our legs when we laugh!) Couple this with dealing with tweens or
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teens, launching young adults, or for some a bonus baby (hot flashes and the terrible twos!). Add the financial pressure of paying for kids’ proms, cars, colleges, and weddings, or caring for aging parents, and that is enough to send many marriages to the brink. But to really understand midlife marriage stress, one has to dig in and learn what is going on in a male’s heart and mind at midlife. Years ago, when my oldest (who is now 29) was 3, I went with my husband to pick up his father for a lunch date. While Bill went into the building to get his father, I stayed in the car with my newborn and my toddler. The parking lot was completely empty, so I decided now would be an appropriate time to nurse my infant. A few moments later, a midlife man in a red convertible sports car drove up next to us and parked. He could have parked anywhere — the parking lot was completely empty — but he chose the spot right next to our car. My impatient toddler hopped out of his car seat and promptly opened his door, swinging it right into the red sports car! I was mortified as I looked at the red-faced man. He seemed ready to blow his top. I felt in danger for myself and for my sons. I whisked Brock into the car, locked the door, looked at the man, and mouthed an “I’m very sorry — we have insurance.” I prayed my husband would return so that we could trade insurance numbers, etc. They were tiny dings, but I still felt bad.
RED HOT MONOGAMY BILL & PAM FARREL However, I was about to feel worse. The man got out of his car and came over to my window and began to beat on it with his fists, swearing and threatening me and my children. Then he got into his car and peeled off in a huff. I was crying and upset when Bill returned to our car. I recounted the story to Bill and his father — and they were outraged that any grown man would act in such a manner, especially toward a nursing mother and toddler. But now that I am in midlife, I have gained new compassion for the man in the red sports car. I am sure he was a frustrated midlife man. That car might have been his only joy. He might have sacrificed for others for years, driving used cars and giving up his golf game so his kids could get tennis shoes. Jim Conway, in his book Men in Midlife Crisis, said he felt at midlife like a vending machine because people always wanted something from him. Recently, I observed what people wanted from my own midlife man: Give me your car keys. Give me your counsel. Give me your money. Please turn to next page
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Continued from page 1 “and I’m going to be on the phone if something happens. They know they can call me any time.” “We’re building relationships with these kids,” said executive director Don Smith, “meeting them where they hurt, whether it is just being there to talk and listen to them, or through programs like paintball, video games, mentoring and tutoring or a competitive game of broom hockey. Smith told the story of one troubled high school girl who attended an early morning Bible study after her Campus Life youth worker got to know her and promised to pray for the things in her life that were troubling her. “I met that girl a few weeks ago, when she accepted Christ,” Smith continued, “and she told me ‘if it weren’t for Campus Life I probably wouldn’t be alive.’” On Friday, April 27, San Diego Youth
Midlife crisis . . . Continued from page 2 Give me your wisdom. Give me your connections. Give me your time. Give me your talent. Give me your resources. Give me your prayers. Give me your muscles. Give me your expertise. Give me, give me, give me — and he gave and gave and gave. To hold midlife marriages together take God’s advice in Colossians 3:12 to “put on a heart of compassion.” Maybe in giving back to
for Christ will celebrate its 60th anniversary in the area with a Legacy Banquet at Pathways Community Church in Santee. The evening will honor long-time youth leader Pastor Von Trutzschler and Youth Specialties founders Wayne Rice and in memoriam, Mike Yaconelli, as well as naming the Student Leader of the Year. Complete information is available at the YFC website — www.yfcsd.org. The first full-time employee of Youth for Christ International when it was launched in the mid-1940s was an up-and-coming evangelist named Billy Graham. Things have changed form those days of coats, ties and gabardine slacks, but the needs of young people to know that someone is there for them have not — if anything they are more vital than ever before. “The bottom line is building a relationship with Jesus Christ,” Atkinson concluded, “and how does that ever get old?”
our midlife man, we can help lessen the pressure so he won’t be the one in the red convertible screaming at helpless women and children. And in turn, your man might buy you a “chillow” (frozen pillow) to ease those hot flashes! o Bill and Pam Farrel are relationship experts, speakers, and authors of more than 35 books including best selling Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti. This article has been adapted from 10 Secrets to Living Smart, Savvy and Strong (Harvest House), which can be found at www. Love-Wise.com.
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State working to make abortion easier By REBECCA BURGOYNE January 2012 marked the 39th year since the anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the Supreme Court’s decision guaranteeing a woman’s right to an abortion. Since that dark day, millions of lives have been lost or impaired by the trauma of unrestricted abortion on demand.
GUEST COMMENTARY The good news is that — with growing awareness and improved technology — Americans are becoming more pro-life. A poll earlier this year found 79 percent of Americans would not allow abortion after the first trimester, and 51 percent would allow abortion — if at all — only in the cases of rape or incest, or to save the mother’s life. However, while other states move to add restrictions to abortion, making the
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he most important talking point used by those who support the HHS contraception mandate is that the Catholic bishops and their allies are “outof-touch” and represent a minority view. No doubt you have heard things like “98 percent of Catholic women use contraception” and “most Americans, especially women, support the HHS mandate.” Well, it’s not true. The first assertion is based on a study by the Guttmacher Institute, which as an affiliate of Planned Parenthood, is hardly an objective observer. Even the Washington Post compared the media to Pinocchio for using these statistics. In fact, the most that can be concluded is that many sexually-active Catholic women have, at some point in their lives, used contraception. That says nothing about whether they and other Americans support the HHS mandate. Speaking of which, the claim that most Americans, especially women, support the HHS mandate is equally bogus. I know that will surprise you, given what the administration and the media are constantly telling us. But repeating a falsehood doesn’t make it true. For example, a recent New York Times story told readers that, according to its latest poll “women were split as to whether health insurance plans should cover the costs of birth control and whether employers with religious objections should be able
to opt out.” As Mickey Kaus at the Daily Caller put it, “if the Times says women were ‘split,’ you know that must mean they were actually narrowly against the [Times’] preferred position.” And that’s precisely so. By a 46-44 margin, women favored a religious exemption for all employers. The gap widened to 53-38 in the case of religiously-affiliated employers. Men, who do vote after all, were even more supportive of opt-out provisions. Overall, Americans, by 57-to-36 margin favor allowing religiously-affiliated employers to opt out. Remember that statistic. A Wall Street Journal/NBC News poll showed similar results: by 49-to-34 percent, Americans oppose requiring “religious institutions” to provide contraception and abortion-inducing drugs. Now like I say, this may surprise you. It certainly comes as a surprise to the media. While, as Kaus says, the president “appears to be losing the public debate” on the HHS mandate, the media, which overwhelmingly supports the mandate, can’t see it. When the president’s approval ratings drop, they cite gas prices instead. While they may not be able to see it, I can, and you should, too. This is a battle that is both crucial and winnable. The important thing is to keep the focus on where it belongs: religious freedom. The
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BREAK POINT CHARLES COLSON early polls were a reaction to the media’s initial announcement that this was all about contraception, but the Catholic bishops and everybody else has been working hard to educate them. And you need to continue to educate people that this is about religious liberty. This battle won’t be won in the pews. It will be won over the backyard fence and during kids’ baseball games. It’s getting warm outside, so break out the grill, throw on some burgers and hot dogs, invite your neighbors over, and start talking. And then phone and e-mail your legislators and the administration. As Mark Twain said, “A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.” OK, folks, put on your shoes. We are winning. ❏ Chuck Colson is president of Prison Fellowship. He is a radio commentator, speaker and author. Reprinted with permission.
procedure harder to obtain, California has enshrined a woman’s right to an abortion into state law, protecting the state should the Supreme Court overturn Roe v. Wade. A decade ago, the left-leaning California Legislature took great pride in passing several notorious “landmark” abortion bills, including then-Sen. Sheila Kuehl’s bill — which guaranteed California women the right to an abortion (SB 1301) — and AB 2194 (Jackson), which required all residents in obstetrics and gynecology to take abortion training. Pledging to continue to stand for a woman’s right to choose an abortion, then-Gov. Gray Davis commented in a March 28, 2003 press release, “When I became governor, I warned that no bill restricting women’s rights would become law under my watch — and I’ve kept my word. Today, California is the most pro-choice state in America — and proud of it.” Today in 2012, California still claims an abysmal pro-life record. In a national ranking of the states, California remains near the bottom. Only Washington State, which legalized physician-assisted suicide (PAS) by voter initiative, ranks lower. Although the California Legislature has been unsuccessful in promoting PAS, it continues to strengthen a woman’s “right” to an abortion. SB 1501 (Kehoe, D-San Diego), introduced last month, would make abortion more common by expanding those who can provide abortions in the Golden State. Currently, only physicians or surgeons with valid licenses may provide surgical abortions. Certain exceptions exist to authorize other licensed individuals to perform or assist in nonsurgical abortions — those done with pharmacological agents like the morning-after pill. SB 1501 would allow licensed nurse practitioners, physician’s assistants, and midwives to perform or assist in abortions done by medication or aspiration (suction) techniques. In recent years, abortion providers and clinics have been on the decline, and many states are working to restrict — not expand — abortion. Kehoe claims her bill would give greater access to women from rural areas who may have to travel great distances, take time off work, and incur hardship to obtain an abortion. Wrapped in the guise of access and equality, SB 1501 is more about making abortions more common. o Rebecca Burgoyne is a research analyst with the California Family Council.
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We are not being represented in regard to our country’s founders intent. The unrelenting attacks on the working peoples’ pocketbooks are subjecting us to excessive burdens. We need sanity with outrage (we can’t scream too loud or long enough) before it is too late. There is a lot to be said about what “overtaxed “ means because the government enjoys spending our money. The Tea Party has it right: No more taxes! The person in the White House acts (literally) like he doesn’t know the damage he’s doing to the middle class. The latest propaganda supposedly lowers corpora-
tions’ taxes. Ha! Corporations are already taxed. International business would be taxed double, there and here. Close the loopholes. A capital gains rider would lead to a stock market shut down. Corporations should not be taxed at all. The dividends tax raises of 2.10 percent, of which most of the middle class lives, raised to 44.8 percent, nearly triple the taxes! The administration has it wrong about the economy. The last three years the debt has increased $8 trillion. The U.S. debt is $49,461.79 per person and growing. Taxes and regulation penalize productivity. Get informed and tell others. Mary Calgaro Escondido
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Starbucks boycott urged due to gay support One of the nation’s leading traditional groups is calling for a boycott of Starbucks because of the company’s support of a gay “marriage” bill and its legal opposition to the Defense of Marriage Act. The “Dump Starbucks” protest by the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) was announced March 21, the same day the organization launched a DumpStarbucks.com website. There, supporters can sign a petition to Starbucks, tell friends via social media about the boycott, and enter their ZIP code to learn of alternatives to Starbucks. NOM President Brian Brown e-mailed supporters that NOM “does not take this step lightly.” NOM representatives, including Maggie Gallagher, attended the Starbucks shareholders meeting Wednesday to challenge the company’s position, but nothing was done, Brown said. NOM was a leading group in reversing gay “marriage” laws in California and Maine. “A portion of every cup of coffee purchased at a Starbucks anywhere in the world goes to fund this corporate assault on marriage,” Brown wrote. “Voters in thirty U.S. states have voted to define marriage as the union of one man and one woman. No state vote has ever supported gay marriage. In many areas of the world where Starbucks does business, the concept of ‘gay marriage’ is unheard of and deeply
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offensive to cultural, moral and religious values.” The boycott also is aimed at Seattle’s Best Coffee and Evolution Fresh Juices, which are owned by Starbucks. In a Jan. 24 memorandum to “U.S. partners,” Starbucks Executive Vice President Kalen Holmes said the company was “proud to join other leading Northwest employers in support of Washington State legislation recognizing marriage equality for same-sex couples.” The bill passed and was signed into law but is being challenged by churches via a voter initiative, and could be overturned in November. “This important legislation is aligned with Starbucks business practices and upholds our belief in the equal treatment of partners,” Holmes wrote. “It is core to who we are and what we value as a company.” Last fall, Starbucks signed onto a legal brief urging the U.S. First Circuit Court of Appeals to uphold a ruling that reversed part of the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act. If the decision is upheld, the federal government would be forced to recognize gay “marriages” from any state where it’s legal. Starbucks scored a perfect “gay friendly” score of 100 in the Human Rights Campaign’s annual Corporate Equality Index last year. – Baptist Press
Appeal filed in case about American flag clothing Three high school students, who were ordered to remove their American flag clothing to avoid offending students celebrating their Mexican heritage on Cinco de Mayo in 2010, recently filed an appeal with the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit. The students hope to reverse a trial judge’s ruling that their constitutional free speech and equal protection rights were not violated.
A San Francisco federal judge in the case Dariano vs. Morgan Hill Unified School District (NO. C 10-02745 JW) ruled last November that officials at Live Oak High School in Morgan Hill acted properly when they ordered the students to change out of their clothing depicting the American flag in order to prevent racial tensions from disrupting a school-sanctioned Cinco de Mayo event held at the school.
“The American flag is not a symbol of racism or race hatemongering,” said William J. Becker Jr., one of the attorneys representing the students. It should never be ordered into a student’s locker just so it won’t offend people because of their pride in another nation’s culture. “The American flag symbolizes unity and promotes a public school’s goal of providing students with opportunities to celebrate their cultural heritage. The First Amendment guarantees students the right to express their patriotism every day of the year regardless of whose cultural heritage is being celebrated.”
Becker sued Live Oak High School in 2010. Chief Judge James Ware dismissed the case after deciding that the school had reason to expect an outbreak of violence over the student’s patriotic expression.
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