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Upcycled jewelry made in Rwanda blesses both artist and wearer to support their families.” “So, if you have a heart to help these women, who just want an chance to work, this is a great way to participate. After all,” she continued, “we can’t sustain the work if we don’t sell the products.” Anyone not able to buy the creations is welcome to donate jewelry. Boxes can be sent to Kumwe, 5067 Litchfield Road, San Diego, CA 92009. The ministry takes that nolonger wanted brooch or other items and a team gathers to deconstruct the jewelry into its most basic components for its journey across the sea. The idea for this fledgling project had its conception following a gorilla-trekking excursion Karlman and her husband Dave joined in 2012. It was one of several visits, including some missions trips, the couple made to that continent. But this was their first to the country Please turn to page 17
By KIRBY FAIRFAX A San Diego woman has found a unique way to connect local women with others half a world away, her bridge constructed of repurposed baubles, bangles and beads. Kumwe, the brainchild of Terry Karlman, is a new ministry that transforms unwanted adornments into a livelihood for struggling Rwandans. “It’s a win-win situation,” Karlman said, explaining that Kumwe means “together as one” in the native tongue (Kinyarwanda) of the east African nation. The process begins when odd earrings and other unneeded jewelry are tucked into a box, sent to Kumwe’s San Diego headquarters, and delivered to its workshop in the Rwandan capital of Kigali. “We close the loop when the one-ofa-kind works of art crafted from these castoffs are purchased, so these women can receive a salary
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Hillsong, Planetshakers, C3 Church influence worship in region By RICK MONROE What is it about these churches from Australia! Hillsong and Planetshakers have given the American church marvelous worship songs over the past several decades. Hillsong has brought such standards as “Hosanna,” “Lead Me to the Cross,” “Mighty to Save,” “Search My Heart,” “To the Ends of the Earth,” “Shout to the Lord,” and countless others. The most beloved songs by Planetshakers include “The Anthem,” “Nothing Is Impossible,” “You Are God,” “Healer,” and “How I Love You.” C3 Church, the mother lode, is a strong church movement from Australia and has a local growing congregation, C3
Church San Diego. It’s led by Pastors Jurgen and Leanne Matthesius, who also have kindred spirits to Hillsong and Planetshakers. Pastor Brian Houston started Hillsong Church in 1983 with 45 people in Sydney. It’s grown to 30,000 people at the main campus and a dozen churches around the world, including London, Paris, Stockholm, New York and beginning this year, Los Angeles. Planetshakers Church was started in 2004 by Pastors Russell and Sam Evans in Melbourne, where the 9,500-member congregation now meets on multiple campuses. It also has Australia’s largest youth and young adults programs. The Aussie movements seem
to have a closer connection to San Diego, with recent major events and more planned in March. For your schedules, consider these: • Houston will visit C3 Church San Diego, March 2 to preach. He’s not bringing his worship band this year, but the C3 pastors and much of their worship team have strong connections to Hillsong, so the meeting in Clairemont will have that Aussie influence in worship. • Planetshakers Awakening will be held March 7-8 at Cornerstone Church in National City. The Evans and their Planetshakers Team will be featured at the conference, along with host Pastor Sergio De La Mora. Please turn to page 5
Kumwe partners with Rwandan women to turn re-tool jewelry for sale locally.
Maternity home in Escondido celebrating one-year anniversary By WENDY ROBINSON On March 1, the Lamb of God Maternity Home in Escondido celebrates its one-year anniversary as a unique place that provides a “bridge of hope” to women, babies, and adopting families. Set in a rural environment with over 5,000 square feet, the home provides a safe and comforting place for pregnant, unwed mothers who seek support and Sarah Saccone, left, and Jan Brown, right, look over client’s scrapbook. care in choosing to have an open
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adoption. Grace Delaney founded the maternity home after a personal experience that connected her firsthand to pregnant women who have felt stuck between only two options: single parenting or abortion. She wanted women to know there was another way, a way that “everyone can live with.” Delaney had an open adoption. She felt called to start a foundation providing the same for women who
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were in her position, and thus created the Agnus Dei Foundation. “For women in crisis pregnancy, we want to avoid them having an abortion,” explained Jan Brown, office manager. “There are too many couples in America waiting to adopt and 1.2 million abortions every year. That equation needs to change.” “We want to get people thinking of open adoption as being such a positive solution to this sad problem Please turn to page 7
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The Primacy Effect: Starting out right By DAN JENKINS What if you knew a little interactional strategy that would totally impact all your relationships in an amazing way? Sometimes the most subtle, most seemingly innocuous behaviors can have a huge effect on a relationship.
GUEST COMMENTARY We know that nonverbal communication is far more powerful than the actual words that are uttered. If a husband says, for example, “I’m not raising my voice at you,” but in fact he is raising his voice, the impact of the nonverbal behavior will totally eclipse the meaning behind the words. With all the talk about good communication in relationships, the use of nonverbal messages is rarely recognized or recommended by marriage counselors. So, when would nonverbal communi-
cation be most impactful? The answer is fairly simple; it is in the first 5 seconds of new contact. Depending upon the nonverbal behavior being emitted, those first few seconds will determine the course of outcome over the next 50 minutes, or possibly even longer. I call it the “Primacy Effect” for lack of a better term. In psychological research, the Primacy Effect also refers to the fact that we tend to remember earlier items in a list rather than things later in the list. And, the same is true when we meet someone we care about after a period of absence. Those first few seconds matter the most. The nonverbal behaviors that happen at the moment of contact will affect everything that follows. It makes complete sense, doesn’t it? Your mood is completely impacted by the times when you arrive home after a day at the Please turn to next page
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